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What kind of guys look at porn? Why does my b/f look at it all the time. More info......?

I give my bf more sex than he can handle for the last 2 years and he really enjoys it but every time I go to his room he has videos and magazines every where and he doesnt want me touching any of it or lookin. I think porno is for gay, lonely, or freaks. I dont understand. We have had so many arguements over it. I wish he would atleast put it up. I think I am not good enough for him. He is really protective over me. He thinks that a female who already has a bf should cover themselves up. NO shorts, v cuts, etc. But he is looking at other naked women. Its all in his email even, then he dont know how it got there. Do you think I am sexually pleasing him and he is just faking it? He closes his eyes when we have sex, is he imagining another woman up there? you know the kind of women who have a perfect figure, huge boobs and so on? I dont understand this and I really need some help about it.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    well you have to understand that all men are interested in new women and new bodies even though his deeply in love with someone.. you see its kind of like an instinct.. i wouldnt be so worried im sure his still attracted to yew and i do believe you should have the right to dress as you like whilst he continues to view pornography...

  • 2 decades ago

    It's just porn it shouldn't be a big deal unless he's making it a big deal. You shouldn't be jealous of the porn because hey, he's there with you. But porn can be a serious addiction. If it's causing problems in the relationship you should talk to a therapist. He should at least put the stuff away instead of leaving it around the house. It sounds like he may be insecure about himself and afraid he's gonna lose you and thats why he say's dont wear shorts and v cuts, and stuff. But just because his eyes are closed doesn't mean he's imagining someone else. some people think its weird to keep eyes open during sex like when kissing. why? i dont know. I think when you're having sex and you stare into your lover's eyes it brings it (the sex) to a new level. It becomes more then just physical, it becomes mental and that's where the great sex comes in.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    At this point, it is a pathological need. He wants something that you can't give him.

    You both need to sit down and work this out.

    "More sex than he can handle". *sigh*

  • 2 decades ago

    well then you don't satisfy some need of his, or maybe he likes them because they are kinky, yoUr assumption are wrong about who likes them ,b/c if its true, what category does ur man fall under?

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