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Should she be upset on me?

My bestfriend worked in Iraq,he then decided to extend for a few days,he said his decision would be better for us but then i am very hesitant to accept his decisions coz i don't want to ever risk even a single day.I can't do anything but cry.He keeps on explaining to me that I just have to understand,then after he said sorry to me that he should have listened to me and realized that we should have then made the decisions together.Something bad happened to him in an accident.Me and him used to saved all our conversations then his sis read the part on which we were talking about this topic.Now she gets upset,maybe thinking that if not for me,his bro's decisions would have not been changed..But she doesn't know the details,merely relying on the conversations she had read.Now I feel lost.I am not the type who is so strong and can handle situations like people confrontations. But then i just get bothered the way his sis thinks of me.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    If you are not strong, then learn how to get strong. If you think you didn't do anything wrong, then no need to care about other people. We can't satisfy everyone. We only can do what we think is the best in that moment. Maybe in the moment, you two has no choice. Maybe it's the best way. So, don't regrat and don't feel sorry about it.

  • 2 decades ago

    Whats going on with you and your friend is between you and him.His sister has no bussiness going through your stuff,reading about the two of you,thats private!And now she's upset?Let her be...thats her problem.

  • 2 decades ago

    Just sit down and talk to her (your bestfriend's sister) and tell her the full story. Or you can just let it go and move on.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    First of all, it was wrong that she went thru your personal convo with her brother, secondly, what you and your boyfriend is non of her business, just try and ignore it, she has to get over herself. Its not in our hands what we do, its all karma. So she has no right to be mad at you.

    Take it easy!

  • ?
    Lv 5
    2 decades ago

    That's one twisted story. I didn't get the half of it. But whatever your problem is, don't worry about it. You don't owe any answers to your boy freind's sister.

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