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For years I had a friend whom I was really close with.We met online,through Yahoo chat and over the years we've gotten really close.We emailed,chatted,sent each other texts on daily basis and spoke on the phone.All though we'd never met IRL(because we lived too far away from eachother),our friendship was real.We shared everything with eachother,could tell eachother whatever was on our mind.

Untill about 9 years ago.He was forced to get married and not to cause him any trouble,I backed out.

Unfortunately that meant that our friendship faded,he couldn't keep in touch anymore,because of him obsessively jealous wive.

The thing is that I never forgot about him.Our friendship meant the world to me and I'm sure he felt the same.About a year ago I started to try to relocate him,but so far I've had no luck.

The only information I have on him is his first and last name and the fact that he lives in Italy.

Can anybody help me?Maybe somebody knows how to search for a person with this little info?

Please...any help here would be great!I really miss my friend!

About 2 months ago my son(14 years old)got robbed and was beaten.Because of this he suffered head-injury(severe concussion)and couldn't return to school.My parents stuck by me that whole time,until last week.Past weekend I had an argument with my son,because I suspected him to kindof drag his injury to keep from going to school.To cool off,I went to my parents for a few hours.

The next night my son had a mental breakdown,I've never seen him like this,he was completely in tears,wanted to kill himself,it scared me!

The next day I called the doctor and then my father to share my anxiety.At that point he listened to me and believed me.My mom didn't.She said she thought he was faking the whole thing and that she needed some time to let the news sink in.Last thursday I had a meeting with my son at school,to talk about how we'd go from here-(I didn't call my parents because my mom said she needed some time)and last friday my son and I went to a psychologist.When we got home,the phone rang.It was my father.He sounded really cold and distant,telling me we aren't welcome there for christmas ore new years eve and that I knew why(because they both think my son is a manipulative liar)They are both very disappointedd in us,they want peace of mind and want me to leave them alone.

I was in shock!I mean...they never acted like this,we always had a very strong bond and now this?They're just abandoning us,in a time when we both really need some support..and I don't even know why.All I know is that I'm feeling hurt and very angry that they think so low about my son.

How can they say all these things and judge him like that?They were not here,they did not see his pain!

But...on the other hand this situation is also killing me,although I refuse t call them up and apologize for something I didn't even do-ore understand(and believe me-knowing my mother,that is exactly what she wants from me,she will ignore me until I do)

I don't know what to do anymore.This is driving me insane!So.. please...please help!Tell me what you think about all this?What would you do if you were me?

Last year I met this guy,who right from the start had a certain appeal to me.We dated for a short while and then,through circumstances we kindof drifted apart.About a month ago our paths crossed again-online-and we started chatting and texting back and forth.The thing is:he says he wants to meet me again all the time,asks me when he can see me...and then,out of the blue,he starts acting very distant,kindof cold,like he's not interested at all and couldn't care less.The next day he starts acting kind and sweet again...and the next I get the cold shoulder again.This goes on and on.

By now I don't know what he wants anymore and am keeping my distance from him-even though I still like the guy a lot.I just don't want to get hurt.

Why do you think he acts this way...and what should I do?(going on like this is driving me NUTS!)

Since a month ore 2 I have a new colleague at work..and from the first moment I saw him I felt a strong attraction towards him.But I soon found out there are several reasons why I shouldn't act on my crush.He's younger than me,we work together..and...he has a girlfriend.So off limits,obviously.

But now it seems like every time I see him,my feelings for him grow stronger...and to make things worse he's giving me all kinds of signals he likes me too(looking at me with this smile on his face-a lót,

''casually'' touching me,taking every chance to be around me..and the other day he told me he was sorry we didn't work together more often,because he likes me.

I know,I know..no good can come of this,he has a girlfriend,I shouldn't even bother,but this situation is driving me nuts!I'm confused,cant stop thinking about him,can't concentrate on my work when I'm arround him,I'm afraid that people at work will notice somthing's up,that I can't hide how I feel much longer...I don't know how to handle this anymore!What would you do?Please help,I'm going insane here!

Just curious to know..what is the sexiest song EVER to you?

Ok..men,help me out here.(and be honest!!)I've noticed for a while now that men talk about ''wanting to cuddle'',when they really mean they want to have s**.Why don't you guys just say what you mean and give the girl you are with a honest chance to respond?I really don't understand this..what's this about?

Here's the situation:I broke up with this man Sept.2008 after a relationship that seemed to be filled with struggle.Last summer(2009)he contacted me,telling me he missed me,wanted to get back together.I told him to get lost.

That was the last I heard from him..until last night.Out of the blue he sent me an sms,saying he still missed me,asking me to forgive him,so we could maybe start over.I told him that I had moved on,suggested he'd do the same and leave me alone.After that his message changed,first he said ''the relation never meant as much to me as it did to him'' and when that didn't work he became spite-full,telling me our relationship could never have worked out because he was in love with his ex back then(I knew that,that's why we broke up)and now they were married and were pregnant with their first child.

Even though I didn't show him any emotion(acted like I couldn't care less),I feel really pissed off and confused right now.Why did he contact me in the first place...was it just to make me feel bad ore what?Do any of you have any idea why?I could really use some thoughts about this,to help me understand....thanx all!

My bf and I've been having a relationship for almost 3 months now.I knew from the start he was still dealing with a nasty breakup,but that didn't bother me until he started talking about his ex in an affectionate way about a month ago.After hesitating I decided to tell him how it bothered me and why.He got really upset and said he needed to figure out what was going on and he wanted a time-out in our relationship,because he didn't want to loose me.He said he would contact me,I couldn't call,text ore email him anymore.I have been on a time out ever since(for a month now)waiting for him to decide and come around.He calls me about once a week and every time I try to tell him how I feel,that I'm not happy with this situation,but it's like he doesn't listen,ore doesn't want to listen.This situation is killing me,but I don't want to loose him either.What do I do?What would you do if you were me?

I've been asking myself this question over and over and I can't figure it out..so now I'm asking you....why is it that guys are so hard to understand?I"ll explain:I meet this guy and he seems nice,everything is going wonderfully...and then all of the sudden he's gone...without a clear reason.

Is it because he didn't get sex right away?Because then I'm puzzled..if guys get sex at the first(2 )dates.they loose interest too,so that's not what they want either....

Why do guys act so strange?

Why is it so hard for people to just be honest,to say what they feel and think?Why do people think that lying is ok and you'll figure out the truth by yourself eventually?

I've been seeing this guy for nearly two months now and I'm very much in love with him.He seems to share these feelings.The problem with me is that I got hurt by other men in the past once too many and because of that I'm a little paranoid.I expect things to go bad any minute,I question everything he says...and I'm afraid to tell him how I feel.I so want to stop feeling like this and just enjoy being with him but I don't know how...

Should I tell him how I feel and why I act like a fruitcake sometimes?What do you think?Need help here,driving myself crazy!

About two weeks ago I met this guy.We really have been getting along well and last friday we kissed.There seemed nothing wrong when he left.After the weekend things became very quiet arround him so I called him and asked what was up.He acted very sweet,assured me nothing was wrong and he wanted to see me again very soon.That was last monday.Haven't heard from him since...and I'm not going to follow him arround like some puppy.What is he doing...and more importantly...why?Am I right to take my distance..wait for his next move?

And can you tell me why?

I've been seeing this incredible guy for a few weeks now and we are really crazy bout eachother.So far we just kissed..I want more,but don't want to ruin everything by going too far too fast.How long should I wait for sex?

I know this guy I've been hanging out with for about 2 weeks now,we can talk about everything and anything and he seems really interested....but how do I know he's for real and doesn't just wants to get into my pants?

I've known my bf for nearly a year now.I can hardly contact him,he allways seems to be busy..but when he calls me I'm expected to be ready and willing.Can't shake the feeling 'something is not right here...