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How do I know he really likes me for me?

I know this guy I've been hanging out with for about 2 weeks now,we can talk about everything and anything and he seems really interested....but how do I know he's for real and doesn't just wants to get into my pants?

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  • Marker
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    Do you know something about his past in love? Has he been a *playah* before? We guys seldomly change these habbits.

    How did you two meet? Have you spoken about sex? Who brought up the subject? Is he willing to wait some time before stepping up to the next level?

    Other than that, it's kind of difficult to really know. Guys, when we really really want to, can go to great lengths just for a first taste of the pie. It's something you might just have to find out in practice.

    By the way, we are *always* thinking about sex... so don't think that just because he seems to think about it, it's all that's in his mind..

  • Zoila
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    If he starts pushing and pressuring you for sex, then you'll know he doesn't like you for you but for what you got. Make him wait...wait and wait until you've both learned more about yourselves as individuals and then as a couple (if it leads to that). "Privileged" friends is not respectful as they only use each other for sex. Same thing..not interested in you but in what you got. The answer...wait and see. But don't waste a friendship by being on the defense.

  • GRUMPY
    Lv 7
    2 decades ago

    Because he will RESPEWCT you if you say NO. Also he listens to you and supports you. If he sticks around after you tell him NO (SEX) he most likely is interested in you for you and not just sex. Don't be so quick to jump in bed or get invovled sexually. If he cares for you as a person he'll stick around for more.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Can never really know for sure....he is a natural liar driven by physical urges, not honesty. Do you think he wants to get in your pants because he **** in his?

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    if he wanted to get into your pants he would have tried by now don't you think! maybe he really likes you. why does it always have to be about sex.

  • 2 decades ago

    Dear; give urself sometime; u can't cross a chasim in 2 small steps; observe things, its not matter how much u wana know him; matter how much he wana know you; love is not to c in each other eyes; its to c in same direction...good luck;;;;

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    hello wake up if he really likes u 4 u hell not be stuck 2 ur pocket

  • 2 decades ago

    Pretend to be poor, or don't wear the make-up thingy on your face whenever you go out with him

  • 2 decades ago

    you won't know unless you find out. but then again, experience doesn't always have to be the best teacher, critical thinking can save your life

  • 2 decades ago

    giv him a test. work it out urself

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