How do I know that my boyfriend is not manipulating me..ore using me for his own purpose?

right now he is definetly manipulating u. if he truly cared he would make time to give u a call to let u know what he is up to. Does he have a cell phone? even on silent he can see the missed calls. if he has time to eat or go to the bathroom he has time to call and just say i love u. There are 1440 minutes in a day and it doesnt take but a few to show you care. He is disrespecting u and stressing u out. Let him know how u truly feel and if he still can't find the time just blow him off. Dont jump every time he calls and sit around and wait for him to find the time to fit you into his so-called busy schedule.

NO it isn't sweetie your man is cheating when a man gets to busy all of a sudden either he wants you to leave you or he's busy or just dont have time for you tell him how u feel and if it doesnt get better then you need to leave

dump him!

There are only two options regarding commitment. You're either in or out. There's no such thing as a life in-between. - Pat Riley

It may not be cheating. It may also be drugs. This is something u really need to sit down and talk to him about. Life is to short hun.

then if the things are not like before than the means thta he has change all of the sudden than he might be cheating on u because for everythinghe might have an excuse pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee so why is he fronting come on ??????????????????????????

He doesn't want to be with you. Period. Sorry....I'm just being honest.