A question for the guys...?

Hi Marjoliendnl, well I'm sorry you see us that way. But really you can't put all the guys in one box, and label them all the same. I'm not disputing that this doesn't happen, that would be ridiculous. But no more ridiculous than you putting all the guys in one box. Some guys are completely honest when they talk to girls, and like you say, some guys just want into a girls pants. And judging by how many people there are in this world, I would judge that a lot of girls want sex. So it begs the question why not go for it. And like I say some guys will go for it. You seem to put the sex issue entirely on the male population, which is hardly fair. Some girls go for sex straightaway. And really when it comes to sex, the girl should be in control. You have to give us a little responsibility here. For if a guy went up to a girl, and said I'd like to take you on a date, but I want sex afterwards. Just what kind of answer would they think they would get. Most likely they will get knocked back, but by no means would all of them get knocked back, because many girls don't mind having a one night stand. Believe it or not some guys ask a girl out because they like her. They might see her as girl that they have always wanted to have a solid relationship with. So give some of us a break, we are not all the same.

I wish you happiness.

well i tell the girl up front what i want and like some guys i hope i love to cuddle with the girl im with and if ya say no to sex i wont get pissed guys are different we are not all the same

Love is not just sex!