How long would you wait?

I would wait until you feel its the right time. Don't push things because yes sex can screw things up. But if you feel that its right then go for it. It can be beautiful.

I agree that it is very difficult to wait, but I firmly believe that it is worth it, no matter the situation. My boyfriend and I are going on three years of no sexual intercourse. And whether it is a religious reason or simply because you want it to be the absolute best at the best time for both of you, it is worth it. It's better to wait and figure out that you do love this guy.

This might be an old fashion responds, but what ever happened to waitng ? Girls now a days think sex is everything. The guy might want to wait and see how things go and get to really know you . Maybe he has never has sex before. Maybe he might be the one saving it.....give it more time...Please.....

Not knowing a pile of beans about you except you must be young if your asking me. First of all, my question is what does sex consist of to you. He sprays you? Ya it feels good. But what about your little button, the one on the outside? Do you know how to play with yourself while he sticks you? Did your last lover know how to go down on you or twitile you with his wet finger? I like to tell a grown man, I will go as far with you as I can commit. So what ever I do, you can count on that tomorrow. Have more make out sessions, learn to be satisfied with better and better make out sessions. Heck have phone sex and do yourself while he himself and than get together for great hugs love and affection. Learn to feel deeply and the sex will come of it's own and of course keep it safe. learn how to put on a condom like a pro for the guy. And than have him come outside of you anyway. learn to give good hand and oral for the pop.

as long as you are waiting for sex, then do not go to bed with this guy. When you are ready to make love, take the usual health precautions and then enjoy the experience.

Please...is sex the ultimate answer to all relationships ?

I dont think so. You can ruin everything. Just give yourselve and him time...let the things roll as they need to roll...

JUST GIVE IT TIME OR YOU WILL RUIN IT ITS ONLY BEEN A FEW WEEKS IF YOU REALLY CARE FOR HIM THEN WAIT THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THEN SEX YOU KNOW

just ask him questions about his past as far as with women and relationships just to see what hes been through and things that maybe went wrong on his behalf or even the woman's behalf.

I believe Sex is sacred and should be saved for marriage.

u should wait for the right age