Why does he act like this?Anyone help..?

It's crazy right ? All guys are like this ..It happened to me and can't seem to understand it it's like Make up your mind do you like me or not ?? One day he's really nice the next really cold with you .. I guess it's just a guy thing they change like the wind !! Maybe he is trying to make you jealous or get your attention and see if you are really into him and talk to him even though he is giving you the cold shoulder ! It's not easy to tlk to a guy when he seems like he is not interested you feel like your bothering him!! Well you sould talk to him and ask him what is his problm why is he one day really nice and the next he changes ..Hope i helped Good luck xxx

By the way try not to avoid him or not talk to him cause if you do he might think you are not interested anymore and give up him aswell and you both will drift away !

Ughh. Maybe there's something on his mind that makes him like this.

Maybe he has a problem that he wants to share, but he just can't express it to you.

Since he's interested on meeting you again, and that you keep in touch, he's looking into that chance he could trust you and be able be open up. Maybe it's that.

If you ever get the chance of seeing him again and then he acts cold, try asking what's in his mind, or if there's something troubling him. He'll see that you're concerned for him. But then, don't expect him to answer eagerly, or something. Just, keep in mind that there might be something troubling him and you want to help, if that is your real purpose.

Well, if he doesn't open up, then that's his problem. If you really want to extend help, then go on and ask him. But if he doesn't answer back, then, maybe distance is really what's meant for you. But I'm routing for you! :)

Hope this helps you, and good luck! :)

To me it sounds like this guy doesn't know what he wants or is playing hard to get. I think you need to elt go of him. My ex used to do the same thing. The exact same thing. It's not worth it. If a guy really likes you, he will not keep a distance from you. At times, guys just want a girl to be there for him when he needs them. He seems to come to you to sweet talk you and make you want him more. He's playing games with you. leave him now. Block him do anything yo need to do. move on sweetheart.

The guy sounds like he is bi-polar. Drop him and stop all communication. Why would you want to put yourself through all of that? It is certainly not worth your time or concern to be involved with someone like him. Find a nice sane guy who deserves you.

Maybe HE is the one who is NUTS.

Anyway, don't worry about this guy, he is so inconsistent that it would just be one horrible roller-coaster ride.

YOu want someone who wants you ALL the time, not every other day.

all I'm going to say is that if he doesn't put you as high priority, than he doesn't really care about you, find a guy that when he sees you it makes his whole day.

thats the girl im trying to find, had enough of shallow girls

Good riddance to bad rubbish!