I want to be a good friend, how should I deal with this situation?

don't judge. it's not your business. probably has lost the boyfriend, and new bf and doesn't need to lose a friend too.

yeah, she did something really stupid. hopefully she'll learn from it; even better if others around her learn from her mistakes too. she probably feels miserable after being stupid and used by mr. one-night-stand. lend her a shoulder to cry on...could be you next time.

(however, you don't have to listen to all the whining! let her cry on your shoulder, not WHINE and cry on your shoulder...don't be afraid to make the shoulder rules)

I know how you are feeling because I had a friend who did this, also. I was very angry with her and it ended up costing us our friendship. I would advise you to be open when listening to her. She may be upset and want to talk about her feelings. Try very hard to listen non-judgementally, even though you do not agree with or understand what she did. Let her know that you are there for her. Remember that this will pass and your friendship will remain long after this incident is forgotten.

well...ive never been in that position before but if it was my friend i would have talked to her about it and see if shes just trying to get a higher self esteem. she may need you to tell her something that will cheer her up if u havent already. by the way, thnx for putting me on your watch list =)

look at it this way yeah she did a wrong thing she should have told her boyfriend that she didn't want to be with him any more it was wrong of her she should not have done that was you friends with the boy think about it she done it to her boyfriend she could hurt you like that to i am sorry and i hope you can work things out

I've been in a similar situation. There's not a lot you can do about the situation. She's gonna do what she's gonna do- you can't stop her from things that "just happen".

she was unfaithful, and if she really did love her ex, she would not have had sex with her other guy. people are not always what they "seem to be", and the intercourse did not " just happen." she had to have thought about it first. you just say to her that she was unfaithful, and for that she paid the price of being dumped.

just dont even mess wit it just leave it like that and tell her 2 forget him i mean she made a mistake but she needs 2 get over it

tell her that she is a very special person and that she has a good mind ,after all she picked you as a friend,and she should use it better