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People please help or I'll cry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

All my friends(girls) in school and now even my cousins at home have started ignoring me. They don't talk to me nicely anymore. I have tried talking to them about the way they treat me and They just said that "Boys find U very pretty, what do U give them to drink." I was literally shocked on hearing this. I can't understand how to handle them. I always smile and talk to them and everything but still. Please tell me how can I handle them.

Update:

I never did anything to annoy them.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    I know your pain, I'm guessing your pretty, people person, and your not stuck up. Most girls hate, girls like you.. I was also like this growing up, and no girls liked me either. I could hang out with the guys, with no problem. Honestly, there's nothing you can do to get your friends back, I know it hurts but your just going to move on. Also, if you stop trying to talk to them and live your life for you, eventually they'll come around. Why, because they'll see how nice & happy you are and the'll want that to...

    Stay Strong

  • 2 decades ago

    well in my opinion, i would just let it go. it seems to me that you dont even notice the boys that notice you all the time, and you cant help the fact that they do find you pretty.... so to be totally honest its their loss, and if they cant see that the way they are treating you is ugly then just let them be, it will end up hurting them in the long run....

    have fun, live your life, who gives a damn about the people who wont talk to you because of boys! if they dont realize that they come and go, but a true friend will last a life time... SCREW THEM!!! they're the one that will miss out, not you

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Why not try asking them what you're doing wrong. Also, you said they told you boys find you very pretty. Could it be possible that one of them likes a guy who likes you instead of them and that's why they're not talking to you?

  • I ask ur friends y they r ignoring u.

    Maybe they don't accept the real u 4rm inside and i think u should be courageous enough and move on.

    u can look for another friend who accepts u the way u r.

    As 4 ur family. i think they r 2 busy.

    Tell them that u need attention.

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Try to change ur attitude towards them & if u think that ur attitude is good then just ask them in simple words that why r they behaving so rudely with u

    Source(s): From my heart
  • 2 decades ago

    They may think you have done something that you haven't.Or they are jealous.Ask each of them in private what you have done and what you can do to fix it.Or maybe you will just have to get new Friends.Good luck

    Source(s): life
  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    i don't know the problem, but i guess there is something in you that people dont like, maybe personality, attitude, stubborn, you treat them badly. just ask your self what is wrong with you.

  • 2 decades ago

    hey jus dont bother about de people who speak ill about u... jus find one with whom er really comfortable and enjoy life.. that wil make er life happy.. cant stop people's speech it wil go on... i face de similar situation.. but i found a good friend of mine... now my other friends are returning back to me.. i use to never bother about them. they realise it now and r returning back.. nothing is stable in life take it as it comes...

  • 2 decades ago

    don't worry..at this stage it happens..the best thing will be to talk to them and explain ur position..and if they don't understand...move on...there r so many ppl in this world to be frnds with....y choose those who hurt u????

    Hope this helps u...

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    If they were your real friends. they would be more accepting of your personality and your looks. Move on.

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