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I need some advice....can anyone help????

I am 16 yrs old and I need some advice. I kind of like 2 different guys. Well....I used to. Now that is is the end of the year I don't really like anyone right now. I will see them both next year but that doesn't really make a difference. Is this just a phase? Will I like one of them when school starts again. Or do I still like one (or both) of them and am just trying to forget it over the summer? I need some advice please.

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    You are growing and changing rapidly - and perhaps - so are your tastes in boys. For whatever reasons you liked them in the beginning, that has changed. You don't say whether you got to know them, or if they did something to turn you off.

    As you grow, you set in your mind the type of person that you seek, and maybe those two boys simply don't fulfill your ideal boy. You will meet many boys who may pique your interest, but you won't date them all. It is good to be selective.

    If you tend to do this with every boy you meet, THEN you may have a problem. You might be considered too picky then.

    Next year you could meet a boy who really fulfills your ideals and if so, then you will date him - but for now, you are simply shopping around and seeing what is available.

    You are young yet and there will be time for dating in the future.

  • 2 decades ago

    No its not a phase. You're just confused. Dump both of them citing that you are not ready for a relationship or say you want to find your inner self yet. And really, have the summer all by yourself and some friends.. forget love just yet.. you're 16. think of college.

  • 2 decades ago

    You are just 16.Have fun and enhjoy .Do not think these things now. You are too young to have such problems. Leave your life.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    wel i think that it is just a phase! eventually u will find out that one of them is not who you thought they were and your love will be directed at the other guy

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  • 2 decades ago

    maybe during the sumer you'll meet someone else and forget both of them.don't think about too much and enjoy your vacations.

  • 2 decades ago

    you may not like both of them, observe the behaviour for some day

  • Annie
    Lv 7
    2 decades ago

    no advice needed ... you will be 3 months older and wiser........ just wait till school starts and enjoy the summer....... God bless

  • 2 decades ago

    give it a little time, you'll find out what you really want. maybe you'll meet someone else this summer.

  • 2 decades ago

    You may like as many as you like ! Why only two ? LOL!!!

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