what to do when your wife is not ready for sex?

Do it yourself. Ive been married twice, this time for 2 years and I "do it myself" a lot. I get so tired waiting for her to get in the mood.

My husband and I have horribly different sex drives. He hardly ever wants it and I want it all the time. Try romancing her a little and see if that doesn't make her more receptive to sex. Talk to her about your sex drive too. Maybe even talk with your doctor. I'm not saying its unnatural to want sex alot but if you are worried about it you should seek a doctors advice. There is nothing wrong with masturbating when you are in the mood for a quicky and she isn't around or isn't in the mood or you just want the gratification it brings. Also don't worry about it so much and remain faithfu7l to her. She loves you.

why is everything about sex with men. I too am in your same situation. sept i'm the woman. I just dont sex to become a choir in our realtionship. so i hold out couple of days and its like the first time again. Of course i know he's gonna *do it himself* everyonce in a while. Don't bother me none as long as i know he aint cheating i'm fine with what ever it takes. So give your wife some time..And when you feel like it...then do the things you know turns her on. should work!

well go watch TV. or masturbate. you dont have to go and cheat on her. i mean that's a stupid reason to. do you guys havee kids or does she work? Been tired has a lot to do with not wanting to hav sex when you want to. If you help her more ..not saying that u dont. she would have a little more time for her self and to relax. and more energy to have sex with you.

im not married but i do have a g/f. i have to do is squeeze her ****

and then thats how i start it .