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Is it wrong to show affection towards the opposite sex on the computer if you're married?

Update:

Not what Im doing wrong. I have better morals than that. Just asking a Q for a friend o mine. She is wanting a divorce and has fallin for another guy. I tried telling her to divorce before doing this, but she says it just happened.

Update 2:

Been married 22 yrs. Don't want to end it. We're just friends, he wants more I guess. NOT ME!!

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  • 2 decades ago
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    affectionate loving? affectionate sexual? i think affectionate would involve some kind of touching. anyway, yes it is wrong.

  • 2 decades ago

    I myself think it is terribly wrong. My mother and father were married for 21 years, and she started IM'ing someone and eventually ended up cheating on my father. She had wanted a divorce for a long time and I have yet to figure out why she didnt just ask for one. But messages can end up as a lot more in the long run. I think you should get a divorce before you start showing any type of affection to anyone.

  • 2 decades ago

    It depends on what kind of affection. If it's friendly affection, implying nothing more,(sexual, physical) than it should be okay. I like some people on line and they know I'm married and I told them straight up, that friendship was all I was interested in. Nothing more.

    I would keep things on a friendly basis until you figure out what you want to do in your own life and marriage. Things may seem bad at the moment, but they will get better or resolve themselves, one way or another.

    Wait for things to get settled, before you make outside plans. Because whatever you do, you may end up regretting your actions.

  • 2 decades ago

    i think that depends on what exsactly your doing?

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