Is it fair for your Ex to just remember you thru emails and calls when she has problems?

You do not have to accept or acknowledge her calls or emails. Tell her you have moved on with your life and you wishes she would do the same and do not accept or respond to the calls or emails

Of course it is not fair, they need to say hi everynow and again, even when things are ok. But with ex's you just have to expect that they won't call. I think it is some kinda rule thing.

If he/se calls you with problems then it means they still really trust you, so consider yourself lucky and try to help as much as possible.

If it hurts you to receive those emails, you need to tell her so she knows. For her, it may be nice to keep in touch and see how you're doing - and she may still rely on you for your opinion in things. Don't be mean about it, just tell her you don't wish to receive anymore emails because you have moved on and she needs to, too. Good luck..

Nope, it's not fair. Next time you talk with her, tell her to move on, call her friends for advice. Let her know you have moved on and you are not her therapist! She is high maintenance drama!!

Life's not fair. Block her email and don't answer the phone and it won't trouble you anymore.

it depends on if you want to keep ties with her or not..shes trying to keep you in her life as a friend and she obviously values you opinions and feedback when she has a problem..take it as a compliment..she refers to you when a problem occurs because she thionks youre smart and may help her solve it

you must have really gained her trust and confidence, obviously she still holds your opinion in high regard. next time she e-mails just write her back that your not sure what she should do

No it's not. Tell that slut to take a hike.

no hell no