are you a mom, and your kids live with dad?

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if so i have a question for you. i have two step kids along with two of my own. i am getting married in September, and i live with my fiance, his two kids, and my two. my step kids' mom is a real loser, but ever since i entered the picture she has a new interest in mothering her kids. dont get me wrong, i love these kids, and having their mother is great, but she is making our lives hell because she is jealous of the attention i am able to give her children. i have tried to talk to her about this. my daughter has a step mom, and i am greateful she has someone else to love her and guide her. if there are any moms out there that can shed some light as to what i can do to make a relationship with the other "mom" better, please tell me. i really just want to make things as good for the kids as possible, and not wreck havoc on our lives if possible. please help me what should i do to make things better with her?

•°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• · Accepted Answer

Well I understand you cuz i have kids myself maybe she is having a rough time in her life at the moment and is jealous of u, but dont worry about it'll pass to make thing better talk to her and let her know that u'r now trying ot take her babies away from her, u just want to be a friend to them because u r married with there father and u dont want to be the "bad step" mother,let her know that and maybe she'll feel better cuz no one want there kids to be  mistreated...... And thank for answering my question I think he did and it suck cuz the one time he was going ot answer my question about y he lied , he couldn't really say cuz "all his Friends were around" So he told me he would talk to me later and it's tuesday and he keep avoiding me....... so i guess i'll just Let it go thanks anyways

Serendipity · Answer

maybe you respond toward her is seen from her point of view as negative-after all you said she is a loser, so maybe there is some hostility in the way you act towards her. Maybe she is jealous because she is ahving a hard time in her life and her ex's life looks all peachy, or maybebecause most women are very over bearing when it comes to their children they do not like somone trying to take their place. Yes I have children and do not get along with my ex's girlfriend because 1. she is married to other man and that's a whole another ballfield and 2. she has no kids and has never made a effort to talk to me and 3. I dont like her because she is a liar, cheater and another bad word. So maybe just try to stay out of her life as much as possible hope this help

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