why my dear dear friend change like this?

Hope that she means on what she has said to you and honest for her words. but i think she just trying not irritate you, she just politely step back from you since she not done this only to you but to her old and her best friends too....hope that she is not a materialistic woman that she think money is the most important than anything even fro the true friendship...if she is not the type a person that you hope,...please move back from her too. she is not worthy for you.

But the best way is,..you find right time to discuss this with her and find out what exactly happened to he. Good Luck

I dont know how to speak tamil but i'll try to answer your question anyhow. People change. And that includes your dear dear friend. She probably just have a new perception of life now. Maybe she's tryng to get into something or maybe her social circle just evolved because now she's met new people. Dont expect your friends to stay as they were maybe she's right when she asked you to stay as from her as possible. She probably knows she's changing herself and she knows it will be painful for you in the long run. That brother-sister relationship can still work if you and her decide to make it work, but i really think its just her way of saying "I'm sorry theres no future for you here" in not so blunt of a way.

It sounds to me like peer pressure, she wants to be accepted by these ppl that have more money and things than she does. I don't think that it will make her happier tho.

Is she poor? it's possible that these people make her feel like she has more, I know its not a good thing that she has forgotten all her old friends, but hopefully in time she will realise this. If she hasnt lost her friends by then.

Call her when you know she is home and tell her how you feel about her not being the same friend anymore. That you miss the relationship and that community should not get in the way of a close friendship like that.

Everyone changes through experience and age. Have you tried talking to your friend and asking if you did something wrong to make her feel so distant? My best advice to you is to talk to your friend and if she or he does not answer or hurts your feelings, then it means that you need to find new friends that will be there for you no matter what. Good luck

cause she is vergin they dont know waht they want in life ,it is better to be sister with her and find another girlfriend .gud luck.dont wast ur time

i guess she do 4 ur own good!so must better to ask him in personal.and tell them dat u get hutred!