Guys which type do you prefer?

I'd not want a lady totally like either extreme. I'd say I mostly go for a woman who's confident and ASSERTIVE. Dominant has a stronger connotation. Mrs. Right for me, would be powerful, and commanding, but not compelled to dominate any and everything. Powerful, passionate, and outgoing. That's what I look for in a woman. Such a gal's usually more fun, interesting and respectable. No submissive waifes for me. I'm no miond reader, and it get's irritating always having to coax out of that type info like "where do you want to eat?" lol, the "wherever you want to" answers are frustrating. Asertives are'nt afraid to give an honest answer about themselves. Mystery's for sherlock holmes. :-D

Second part:..... Assertive too, definately. (My druthers would be once a day) An assertive passionate woman's not gonna be inhibited about enjoying herself. Attention will let a guy know what's working for her. But there's always the chance that she's being "polite" by faking. An assertive gal's not scared to say

"Hey, knock it off! That hurts." Finally, one of the more "biggies": Meekness being boring, it's also a pain to ALWAYS be the initiator for sex. If a gal's hot to trot, it's sexy when a gal will come home and say, "Saddle up cowboy, I'm ready" Being eager means ya like it. Also means ya don't look at it like a chore. (how sexy is THAT?)

I'm not sure where I fall in for the correct area here,,but as a male, I want an equal partner,,I don't expect to be the boss,,yet I don't want to be bossed either,,,I want for both parties to have an equal say in everything,,,I would never expect to make a major purchase without asking what the other person thought about it,, I don't like arguing!

the second question,,if you are implying how often a person/couple should have sex,,I perfer everyday(except when the "hatchet man" is in town),,and again in that department,,it should be equal,,I guess I don't care for whips and chains,,but if the other person wants to be in charge,thats okay,,my turn will come next time!!

honestly, I know this sounds like a copout, but I like a strong woman that is willing to submit to me (but not cower)- but I have found the perfect girl, so I don't have to look anymore. Hope this helps but probably won't in the least!

has to be in the middle of the two, I want a girl that knows what she wants and goes for it but not to the point of being a controlling biznitch.

hope that makes sense.

I preffer Submissive .. but a mix would be ideal.

One with a little of both

dominate, submissive women bug me. give me a fire brand anyday.