Why do some females try to talk to other men if they are not over their ex boyfriend?

Sometimes, its the thought of being alone scares them. Thinking that this person can be a source to forget that other person. Yet, you don't realize you only think of the other person even more because you will be comparing them from the way they smile to the way they smell. You do this to make the pain go away but you just brought more pain to yourself and the other descent victim.

You need to understand that all people deal with break-up stress in different ways. Some women (and this applies to men too) want to just pretend the relationship never happened, others want to be miserable for a while until they can accept it, others play the tough guy, and yet others can't stop talking about it. There are a million ways for women (and men) to express their break-up stress; it's all dependent on the person.

Respect everyone's way(s) of dealing with stressful situations. You should feel honored that these women come to you for a friend's shoulder to lean on when they're upset.

Maybe they are searching for the guy who can make them forget the last loser they was with.But your atttitude would send them running back to their ex.Maybe just think for a minute if you invested time into a relationship if you could forget everything both good and bad in a short time without being able to vent some of it.

Maybe its because they need a guy to speak to, to comfort there needs. To find out if they are still really in love with there ex. Just to find answers about themselves and their feelings perhaps.

Thats prevention because woman think ahead and they say if I break with my boyfriend well here is another prospect....i think is logical ....the guy should do the same

because they want to try to get over their ex boyfriend. it means that they really ar trying to get over them, because they know its over and it would be stupid to just sit around and cry wishing he'd come back to them. So they go looking for someone who will make them not so sad over their ex anymore, and look for someone to brighten everything up.

same goes for men........what should they wait,,,oh a year or more, so that they might have something else to talk about.....get a heart,,,your a jerk for not undrstanding...

thats how they get over him.