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why do love got to hurt some much for?

i have being married to this man for almost 9 yrs we have two kids but we do not live together over two yrs now and i have ask him millions of time to find us a place so we can live together but he just will not , and it is hurting me that he do not want to live with me , what should i do plz help

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  • 2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    easy

    let yourself be heard

    let him know how you feel,,, and think

    u should know that love isnt always a sweet thing,,,

    need to be matured in different ituations,,

    talk to him!!!!

    love is never be love without sufferings and hurt!!!

    its part of it!!

    God bless!!

  • 2 decades ago

    he's out having his fun that's why hedoesn't want to find a place 4 all of u to live if he gets a place 4 all of u than his fun will stop no more hanging out with the boys and girl chasing he's not ready for that major commitment yes he married u but he doesn't want to live with u come on give him up already he's chasing skirts that's all and your somewhere with the kids tell him look find us a place or i'm walking with the kids this is not a game its real life and there is 2 kids to think about remember them if u don't want me fine let me and i'll be fine but u have 1 month to find us housing or divorce court here i come

  • 2 decades ago

    I hope that you can find someone else. You do not deserve this. But, you are a great person. Men do not want to feel like you need them. You do with those kids but the best you can do is to fix yourself up as well as you can and keep yourself fit. He can't be pulled in, he has to be drawn in. Best wishes. You are a sweet heart.

  • 2 decades ago

    are you serious? youve been married for 9 yrs and youve not lived together yet? where do you both live then and why dont you live together? if its HIS idea to live seperatly, get a divorce.....

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  • JAZY
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    tell him if he really wants to have u around he needs to hurry up b/c u r getting tired of not having a real marriage

  • 2 decades ago

    Why did he separate from you? Sounds like you want him back but he doesn't want to. He may have his reasons, why? Give me more details.

  • 2 decades ago

    have you ever thought that it could be because he wouldn't stand seeing you 24/7? not that it's what i'm sayin but you should consider that as well.

  • King H
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    You do realize he's seeing someone else right?

    Go from there

  • 2 decades ago

    divorce him....seems he likes being apart from you and the kid

  • 2 decades ago

    FORGET HIM AND MOVE ON.MR WRIGHT WELL COMEALONG WHEN THE TIME IS WRIGHT.

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