why can't i forget the girl whom i loved so much?? i can't concentrate on anything... help me?

You continue to love this girl very much due to your previous passionate pursuits. The reasons why this is taking up most of your thoughts and concentrations is due to the fact that you never have gotten closure from the situation. See if you can go back and say your final farewells or get the true feelings of the situation out. Losing a love is devastating, but what we all forget to do is to rejoice in the fact that you have once loved. It is always possible to love again.

Wow, I knew you were in love with me but I had no idea you were so heartbroken. You have to go on....I have this effect on a lot of guys. (I am just kidding)

Seriously, I felt the same way once about a guy. The only thing that really helped me was time. Every day gets a little better. Find stuff to make your days go by quickly. Before you know it, you will feel better and maybe even be glad that it didn't work out. That was what happened to me.

You will make it, I promise. I know it is hard and it hurts, but you will be great.

Have a good one!

Love is hard, isn't it? It seems to take all reason out of the brain and we are consumed with the feelings. You obviously loved her, but for whatever reason the relationship is over. It is natural for you to feel that "love pain". You can review what happened in the relationship and see if it can be fixed. You can let time heal and begin again on the love journey, or you can take time to work on you. Whatever the case, give yourself some slack, the hurt will subside as you grow and move on.

Most of us, if not all, have been there. Without knowing how or why or when it ended, I'll just say this. Time heals all wounds. When someone is a big part of your life there's bound to be a void when they leave. Don't wallow in self absorbed misery. Keep active, stay positive, and keep your life moving forward. Trust me, there will always be another.

Its a tough one. Its not easy for a guy to forget a girl that he care,love and respect. But this is life. More u think abt her, it will be more difficult for u. Just try to take it easy and spend time with friends.

First love...same as anything else you done for a first time...First time you Tied your shoes...First time you got a blackeye(maybe), First time you kissed a girl... its those type of memories you can't forget :P

simply just think of it as a memory to tell your future kids but without the Sexual stuff :P

Time might help ease the pain in your gut and your brain, but the best cure is meeting a new girl, but heck even thats can take time, Ccc ya no what Time is a ***** !!

B COZ LOVE SOMETIME TURNED IN TO A WOUND WHICH NEVER CURE AND BY THE TIME AS IF IT DRY THE ONE WHICH WHOM WE LOVE EVER SCRATCH IT AND GIVE US PAIN SO THE ONLY SOLUTION IS THE TIME WHO CURE IT AND HAVE FAITH THAT U WILL GET SOME ONE BETTER THAN HER AS I GOT IN MY LIFE.

BE HAPPY

Of course..you love her so much so that you can't forget her.

i'm so sorry that you lost the girl you loved but don't give up on life!!! maybe you should talk to her ....

i know its hard to forget the ones we love but we should never give up. maybe you lost her because there's someone different you were ment to spend your life with. never give up!!!