I don't love you?

Just by being with him for so long should let him know that you want to be with him...he should get a hint that if you didn't want to be with him you would not waste your time with him in the first place and if he doesn't see it like that then just let him know that you do really want to be with him as much as possible

Put the shoe on the other foot, what would you like to have him do if you were the one that was insecure? Then flip it to a man's version and you should be able to answer your own question.

Men are very insecure when it comes to their relationships with women, and for a number of various reasons. The one that keeps popping into my head is cheating and that is the number one cause of people breaking up....so, reassurance that you are there and you have every intention of being there for him. Instead of gifts, save your money and take a mini vacation and go see him...don't tell him your coming, just go...check with his roomate to make sure he's going to be home...that will show more than the gifts.

Think ahead of things that you would like to be reassured with, cards, letters, flowers! Yes flowers, men like them too.....

Take it easy, don't stress too much over all of this...that sounds in your voice when you talk to him and that could be some of where the problem is coming from.

I've been in a long distance relationship for many years. We've had our ups and downs and each of us had bouts of insecurities. One of the best ways to deal with those insecurities is really good communication. I think people who have been in long distant relationships for awhile have the best communication because that's all we have. I don't know how far you are from him, but if it's possible to see him on the weeksends as often as you can, it will help.

There is nothing you can do about his insecurities. That is something he has to come to terms on his own. Long distance relationships are hard, and really you can only go so far online. If you want to be with him why don't you take the next step and go be with him for real? It is just a suggestion, only go if you want to go.

Plan a weekend if possible that you can go see him or meet at a cabin on the lake or something where you can be alone and tell him how you feel and that nothing is going to change let him see that your serious...Dont surprise him though bc he might or might not take it well....Good luck!!!Always live life to the fullest!!!

He sounds a little insecure. Why dont yall either move closer to each other so you can see each other more. Or keep telling him how much he means...sometimes its just that little thing they want to hear

Why not just ask him that question? If he's scared you'll leave him he should know what you could do to put his fears to rest. Best of luck! : )

talk to him

send him letters all the time

send pictures of yourself to him and ask him to send pictures of himself to you.

Tell him that you love him

call him a lot

email him

tell him how you really feel

Get married.

Tell him that you love him often, and send him gifts 'n such.