Is my sex drive normal?

I encourage you to investigate all the non-sex issues that may improve your relationship. As you figure out all of those issues, here are 2 suggestions to consider on the physical communication front.

Suggestion 1: Consider alternating days. Suggest trying for one week to alternate who leads or defines that day's physical interaction: timing, frequency, activity etc.

This will likely do some good and pleasantly surprising things:

- Both people feel like they are getting more of what they want on their days.

- Both people get a "day off" where they don't have to decide what to do.

- Everyday doesn't feel like a compromise, meeting "halfway" but never really getting what either wants.

- Both people are allowed to communicate, taking turns listening and expressing. They know they can both speak and be heard, and that enboldens both men and women.

- You discover your partner is happier because they get what they want and they get to take charge a fair amount of the time. And you might be surprised that their libido increases as a result of them having a fair amount of control over the level & direction of things. With clear license & encouragement to be expressive, their enjoyment of the physical activity may increase.

Suggestion 2: Take massage courses to incorporate a variety of therapeutic massages into your physical interaction. This will be more pleasing in more than purely sexual ways, adding more incentive to spend intimate time together physically. Good luck

OMG i know what you are going though trust me I am the same way love to have sex and only got it maybe at first the 1st 10 yrs of Marriage was like 3-4 times a week and trust me I wanted it 2 a day no lie once I realized what it was like to really start to enjoy sex that all I thought about it killed me! now never have it and would still love it maybe 3times a day! so you are normal as ever! Just Married to the wrong man like I am!

How can you be 'very sexually attracted to him' but can't get into sex? This tells me you're not being very honest with yourself. Many women - some 25% - don't like sex at all. The other possibility is that he isn't satisfying you. This is partly under your control. And once a day for people in their 20's isn't all that unusual. On a different tack, it's not necessary to have intercourse to satisfy a guy. Hand jobs require little effort, and most guys like them a lot. In any case, be honest with yourself.

I have had 2 kids and I am 26 I have the very same problem. I found making myself think of sex more often has been working. At night when we are just sitting there watching TV I will stare at him and think sexual thoughts and that is helping me!

Good Luck

Sounds pretty demanding if he wants sex everyday!!!! Maybe try once every 3 days and you should take some kind of pill or drink for women that will enhance your Libido.

his sex drive is normal. i think you need a little spicing up. ever thought of going to an adult book store? they have some kinky stuff to get you in the mood. it might also help if you dump the kids on grandma for a day or 2. that way it just you and your man. have fun.

A couple times a week I could understand but not everyday

my man and i can't get enough of each other but he always tells me how sexy, attractive, beautiful, amazing I am so when I'm with him I always feel absolutely gorgeous and sexy. maybe your man needs to do a better job of making you want sex with him

well do what u want to do but atlest try it and if u dont feel sexy enough the first time tell him how u feel and y u dont want to have sex w/him so he doesnt think its him

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