ok good question needs good answers....?

Eat a filling dinner. Drink sipping drinks. Don't pound beers, and don't pound shots. Get yourself a manhattan or a highball of some sort...nurse it. Have fun, but don't drink like a frat boy.

If you want to pretend it's ok - order without her and bring the drinks back - for you just get a coke and say it is rum and coke or just an OJ and say it's vodka and OJ -- You definitely don't want to get wasted so tell her she gets to have more fun than you tonight- Even though you shouldn't only be having fun when you're drunk. And remember that she'll probably be drunk so whatever she does it's not really her and that you need to keep your **** in your pants! Cool?

Get a water with lemon or lime in between mixed drinks. You'll dilute the booze and still have a glass in your hand and be able to pace yourself.

you should go easy with some beer or some long island iced teas or something really light! maybe you could have a mudslide or like some kind of fruit drink(with alcohol)!

Have a glass of water between the other drinks or a pop. and sip... don't gulp

well, since i dont drink, im gonna say, dont drink. but dont take shots or whatever you call the, and just kinda take lil sips or something