Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Question for Girls only from a dude?

gotta question for the girls. when ur with a dude, you prefer he sticks with kissing or is it ok to lick you every once in a while, like on the neck or the shoulders. my girls never said anything, i just dont wanna push with that if its something that most girls get grossed out on. i mean its not like all slobbering drooling, but just like running my tongue along her neck or her shoulders for a few seconds. she drives me crazy, sometimes i just get the urge to do that when kissing doesnt feel like enough

29 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I love it when a guy mixes things up! If you can't get enough licking, make sure you're just using the tip of your tongue on her neck &/or shoulders. If you use your whole tongue, it may feel like a dog is doing it. I like it when my guy kisses & sucks on my neck then lightly drags the tip of his tongue up my neck to kiss behind my ear. The skin there is so sensitive I get goosebumps.

    An easy way to tell if a girl is digging it, watch her face. If you start licking her neck, glance at her eyes & mouth. You'll be able to tell if it's pleasureable for her. If you move to her shoulders & she has a weird look on her face, you know not to do it again.

  • 1 decade ago

    You're on the right track and most girls do want you to take the initiative in bed.

    The foreplay you're describing sounds fine to me, soft kisses at the nape of the neck or the back of the knee etc can get some pretty impressive responses.

    You can tell what she likes by her reactions..stimulate the right spots and she'll let you know.

  • 1 decade ago

    I wouldnt do that on the first or second date. Later on maybe. I think kissing on the back of the neck and side under the ear is probabley hotter than licking those areas though.

  • 1 decade ago

    A lick every once in a while is good depends on the type of girl though . That would be a turn on for me though

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • 1 decade ago

    My current beau doesn't, but my ex did, like behind my earlobe, or at the base of my throat, where the shoulder meets the neck, and it drove me nuts! I mean that in a GOOD way, though, because it sent shivers down my spine. Honestly, if they didn't like it, they'd probably tell you, so I wouldn't worry too much about it.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    i love tongue! licking in the mouth, on the neck and shoulders is great!!! just try it, if she doesnt like it she'll stop u. you could always say when ur about to do that, "hey im gonna try something, tell me if u like it", or something like that.

  • 1 decade ago

    well im kind of a crazy girl for making-out so id let you lick me anywhere but if the girl you like is shy just stick to kissing but if she is crazy do the licking but if she just outgoing just touch her!

  • 1 decade ago

    Personally, licking is gross. I don't want all your freakin spit all over me thank you. And if you are an amazing kisser, than you wouldn't need to freakin lick. But i guess that's jus how i feel, some girls might like it. But me, it jus makes me wanna go take a shower. gross....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I always found it gross. Maybe like a little kiss with just a tad bit a tongue, but just running your tongue accross her I would be willing to bet makes her sick.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    All females like to be pleased in their own way. When you are intimate with a woman, try doing different things with her and she'll let you know what she does and doesn't like. There's more than just one way and every woman is different. Pay attention to how she responds to what you do. Keep doing what she seems to like and stay away from things that she doesn't seem to care for. Pay attention to her sounds and moves!

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.