I've been divorced for almost 10 years now, and my ex won't pay child support.?

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I have 2 children that are still minors, 15 and 13.
I've applied, and they've sent me letters that they will serve him, but he keeps changing jobs, and now he's fired. He also keeps changing addresses. He had 2 kids by 2 different women before the marriage, we had our 2 during the marriage, 1 was by another woman and the child was born 3 days before the divorce! He also had another by yet another woman after the divorce.  
He kept bothering me to let my son come stay with him for a year, and I did, only for my son to be on his own, and in the streets til all hours. He wouldn't even give my son a key to his new apt.
So where was my son to go? He failed 8th grade, and had to go to summer school. Now, even though I went and got him, his father keeps calling him to come out there, and there are times I don't know he went. He doesn't care about him or summer school, because he kept him out for 5 days. I say if he can afford an apt.he can pay for his kids. I'm a teacher in IL.

teresa d · Accepted Answer

if im not mistaking there is a group called childsupportkids.org google that they help when the parent isnt doing their part go to court and fail for a petition so that he can have limited visitation your son schooling is more important all these kids and no support his *** needs to be under the jail but once he files for taxes they will take his refund because he owes child support keep filing those papers  and you should see some of the $ and his license can be suspended and he should do some jail time for not paying thats what they do here in nyc and tell yourson to stop sneaking off to see him because if something happens to him its all on you not the dad he has to be careful at least let you know if he wants to go see him but dont let him stay another year a weekend maybe no more than that

jaimestar64cross · Answer

keep the pressure on the system ---  take him to court and try to discontinue visits since it's an unhealthy environment for your teens ---

Alex · Answer

Grow up.. What are you 90? This is all you have to do?

Liza · Answer

report his deadbeat ***!

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I've been divorced for almost 10 years now, and my ex won't pay child support.?

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