what is the perfect birthday gift for a 42 year old female?

No, no, no! Do not get a "spiritual" woman a gift card. She needs something from your heart to hers. Something that shows that you "get" what she is all about. Give her an experience along with a treasure that is symbolic of your relationship with her. The experience will show how you treasure her and the treasure will remind her of all your experiences.

Ex. of experience...

Fix or purchase her favorite foods.

Play her fav. type of music while you eat to candlelight. (save dessert for a little later)

Present her with the nicely wrapped *treasure that is symbolic of your life together.

Excuse yourself to go start the tub for her (dont forget the bubbles).

Take a few minutes to dance at the end of the meal while the tub is filling.

Lead her to the tub and help her undress and get in. Light the candles and turn on the music.

While she is soaking bring her some wine & dessert. (Now leave her alone and go clean up the kitchen.)

Turn down the covers for her and (unless she begs for something more) quietly recount all the good things you remember about your times together and gently massage her untill she falls asleep.

*treasure..could be as simple as a beautifully framed picture from your early years, a book or toy that you know she loved as a child, a small book of poems written by you, some jewelry that reminds you of her or replace something special that has been broken or lost over the years.

A gift card to their favorite store. At 42 you kind of have all that you need and you basically know what you like.

Gift certificate for a massage or other spa treatments.

gift cards

How about a new leather bound Bible with her name engraved on the cover?

If all else fails, flowers are always good.

gift card

hi i'm robert, and i've found that a `sure-thing` present is a watch

an unusual watch that will make her look twice and smile

good luck

lasalle bank gift card

i would buy her some lingerie from a good lable, beauty products,

i donot understand what do you mean by spiritual

buy her a 24k of gold pedant of her zodiac according to feng shue