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Is it too soon?

I got a boyfriend we started dating April 30, 2006. He lived 6 hours away from me. We dated for like 2 months and I broke up with him July 12, 2006. I started seeing someone last friday the 28th, he lives and hour away from me, 1. Is it worth dating someone so far away again? 2. Is it too soon to start seeing someone again?

Update:

i'm way done and over my ex. the only thing is that him and i are friends and he fell really hard for me and was in love with me and i wasnt. i just dont want people to think i'm a skank or something for moving from one guy to the next.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Yeah, I see life is not a bed of roses for you. Have it all,girl.

  • 1 decade ago

    1) Is it worth dating someone so far away again? Well, you need to ask yourself if the reason you broke up with the first boyfriend was because of the distance. If not, then I reckon you should give this a go. If yes, then perhaps long distance relationships aren't your thing, and you need to look for closer ones.

    My boyfriend lives in Washington State, and I live in Holland. SO far, this long distance thing is working, and if you think you can make this work, then good on you!

    2) Is it too soon to start dating again? Only you can answer that. It could be that you are on the rebound from your other boyfriend, and if so, you are just looking for attention and love again. If you aren't ready, then take some time to cool off a bit before starting something new. If not, then if you feel ready to date again, then I say go for it. Follow your heart, and do what YOU think's right.

    Good luck :) Xx

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes its worth dating someone far away if you love and trust that person and you are faithful to him.

    No its not too soon to start seeing someone else again. You were only dating the other dude for 2 months. Life does go on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Nothing's too soon or too late. I believe that we choose what we do. And we can make it right with every decision IF WE ARE READY. So maybe you should ask yourself if you're ready, maybe you are not because you are asking. If you are not, no hurry.. give yourself time.. LOVE CAN ALWAYS WAIT.. false love doesn't.. when you're ready and he's no longer available.. then he wasn't worth it after all. ^_^ Everything needs TIME.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Are u measuring the distance and then Loving. might be this will work for more than 2 months i guess then

  • 1 decade ago

    For as long as you're already done with your other boyfriend I dont see any reason why you have to stop yourself from meeting other guys......Life is too short girl!!!....so enjoy for as long you are not hurting other people...:)

  • 1 decade ago

    if distanceeeeeee is what u count 6 is better than 1

  • 1 decade ago

    1. If you like him then see him

    2. Its the right time when you are comfortable; be confident you've got nothing to lose.

  • 1 decade ago

    it's not that far but keep an option nearer. it may be fun to travel an hour and spend weekend with that date

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you have to do what you feel comfortable with, because there really is no right answer to your question. Only you know if you are comfortable or not....if you are go for it!! If not than I guess you have your answer. Good Luck!!

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