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How can I get my husband to stay at home more?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Compromise - You go out with him if he isnt at home, and hopefully he will do the same. If that doesnt work - you go out alone!! Good Luck chicken, as i have been through it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well you can try to make home more appealing to him. Probably ask him to invite a few of his friends over to a cook up or a party or watch his favourite sports game & treat him & his friends good when he does so. Make him feel when he leaves home he will definitely miss it. Do things that will cause him to miss you or home. Like, probably you can do extrodinary things to his liking so he will miss home and want to be there. Men hate to stay home a lot so you must understand you will NEVER get him to stay home all the time. Men generally like to hang out with their friends. You also must understand this and dont expect him to be a home bird. Men often times need space. Even though nothing may be wrong they need their own space. They dont need to feel like a child or like someone wants them to do this and that. So give yourself a break, hang out with some of your own friends too. You wont miss him that much when you do this.

  • JeffE
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    That's a question with no background.

    Is he out socialising on his own? Is it him out working?

    If it is socialising the you would need to come to some sort of compromise. He obviously enjoys going out and you obviously enjoy staying in. Something has got to give.

    The best solution is for you to both give. You go out a bit more with him, then he might be prepared to spend more quality evenings at home with you.

    There are two lives and two wills.

  • 1 decade ago

    you shouldnt have to!

    But it does depend on where he goes! If it's to the gym, or football or with work then there's not really alot you can do he's not doing anything wrong.

    If it's to the pub/club/bar or a mates house then have a word!

    Or you could start going out when hes at home give him a taste of his own medicine, he will soon say something and you can explain!

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  • 1 decade ago

    You haven't given much information so it's a bit difficult to answer. He's obviously not very happy at home so maybe you've been a bit miserable. Cheer up, laugh and joke more, put some music on and be flirty.

  • 1 decade ago

    You cannot MAKE him stay home, but you can make him WANT to stay home. Talk to him about it. Kids getting on his nerves, arguing all the time, not spending time together...find out whats bothering him and make an effort TOGETHER to change the situation.

  • 1 decade ago

    That's one of the reasons why I left - I was made to stay at home too much!

  • 1 decade ago

    Cook good food , feed him by becoming an good host , no arguement , no complaint , no demand when he is eating . Have shower fefore serving him food or sitting next to him , wearing fresh sexy dress , maintain neat and clean house and specially bedroom , allow him to play and make love with you more often, share your new experience with us here , after one month .

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Forget the house for a while and go with him , you might enjoy what he is doing. If you have children , take them with you. If that is a problem for him , then maybe you have aproblem. Don't let anyone mistreat you!!!!!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Well i always say when the sexual stuff stop thats the end and i dont mean just stickit and *** i mean forplay dress sexy that king of stuff if my wife still did that i would nto care. or look anywere

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