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Should I even bother?
My ex bf and I are somewhat close. Lately we have not really talked and when we do talk we usually end up arguing. His grandmother died yesterday and I was wondering if its appropriate to send him a condolence card or not?
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
It not like yall r enemies or something. so yea I feel like u should send him a condolence card and talk 2 him n keep him company fa da time being cuz he is goin through a hard time in his life rite now cuz grandmothers r like mothers if u lose dem den u basically feel like u have lost yo own life its hard n if he want anyone 2 comfort him n talk 2 him its u. regardless if u both argue he really need u now. so yes u should reall talk 2 him n show yo love n respect.
Source(s): wen love ones die it hard even if its not yo family member jus seein another person especially a close friend it painful fa u as well n 2 comforrt dem n wanna understand it means alot 2 them n they're really thankful n blessed 2 have u do dat n b there for dem. so no matter wat da condition maybe u should always help another in a time of needs and or lost of a friend or family member. u n yo ex don't know me but let him know dat I,m so sorry fa his lost n tell him 2 jus stay strong n u too. Love, Peace n Happiness!!!!!!!!!! - 1 decade ago
You should definitely send him a condolence card. You don't have to talk or argue to do that, it's simply an empathic gesture. Since he's your ex, just treat him as you would any friend.
- 1 decade ago
Well if you have talked to him lately, I will tell him your sorry for his lose, I won't send him a card because a. cards don't always make that kind of situation any better and b. if you send him a card he may get the idea that you don't really want to talk to him. So I would make a point to either call him or when you run into him to tell him that you are sorry for his lose.
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- 1 decade ago
yes, of course, send him a card. you said you are close, friends argue, he needs support, you would do that for a girlfriend, wouldn't you?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
YES.Send the card, show you are a mature caring person.
