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I need advice?

My Fiance is a pastor's child. I love him dearly, His dad is thinking about taking a pastorship in Idaho, We would be 1400 miles away from each other. What do you think I should do? Should I marry him before he moves or what, please give honest opinions.

Update:

Ok to make this easier. Him and i are in our early 20's we have been together since highschool. I am deeply in love with him and I would do about anything for him. The major problem is we don't want to live together before we are married, I also have a good job and college to go to so that I can get the degree that I want.

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    First question--> How old are the two of you?

    Second question-->How long have you been with him and is the relationship a strong one?

    If you are still young like in your teens or early twenties then don't get married. Enjoy life! Be with your family and friends and have a good time.

  • 1 decade ago

    well obliviously u love him because ure marriing him so go with him to idaho if u have 2

  • 1 decade ago

    You have to go so much further into your situation than just this. How long have you been together? How close is your relationship?

  • 1 decade ago

    I dont know how old u or your fiance are or how long u have been together, but if u haven't been together very long and u know that u love each other very much.........dont rush. true love has no boundries.

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  • pay
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    dont do anything rash, are you really ready to get married? to every problem there is a solution talk to him and find out what you guys really want then decide on what to do.

  • Jen
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If he's going to marry you, than why would he move? How old is he, and why don't you just ask him to move in with you?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He should stay in your area, let his dad move, and marry you when your both ready.

  • 1 decade ago

    do whatever you feel is right. its a cruddy answer, i know,but i got nothin'.

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