What does my ex-girlfriend/best friend want?

She's just playing while her true interest is away, and you have nothing but a crush on someone you know you can't have. Stay away for a while and tell her exactly why.

Think she was really frustratedafter breaking up from her overseas boyfriend,so she wanted some one to console her and confide her feelings.Since you were the one close to her she calls you and confides in you.She is also a women and the feelings and emotion must have been on the high yesterday.She is clear in her relationship with you.

She is treating you as a very good friend whom she can always fall upon during distress and confides in you.

Its very clear that her feelings for you is that of a very good companion,who listens to her feelings and respect it.The very fact that you wanted a relationship with her and her refusal to do so shows that she has clear idea where you stand as far she is concerned.She wants you to be her trusted aide,to listen to her confession as she barely has anyone except you.

Be her trusted friend and let her overcome her emotional turmoil. If you are patient enough who knows she might accept your relationship.So give her space and dont hurry things.Keep your distance.As they say time is a great healer.May be she will change her opinion after some time.Till then maintain a safe distance.She will come to you.Good luck.

First of all, she needs professional help. She doesn't want you or him, what she wants is the chase more then the Catch. Neither him or you will end up with her at this time. You need to move on and forget this girl, if anything, keep it as a friendship and nothing more. If not you will get hurt and lose the Game of Love. Look at it this way, been there, done that, its time to start living again. There are more fishes in the Sea. Start fishing and you will be surprise what you can Catch. Thanks for asking and Aloha from Hawaii

This seems to be an issue with your self esteem more than with an x. Spend some time considering what it is YOU'RE looking for- I can almost guarantee it's not this. Sometimes relationships can be a bit like a substance addiction. There's a time when you have to say goodbye to the thing that was a comfort because it has become a crutch that has allowed you to avoid self care. Good luck to you.

You should politely bow out of the situation. She's told you she doesn't want a relationship with you again, and that is probably not going to change. If she claims to be "in love" with the guy overseas, why is she leaning so hard on you? I think she doesn't know what she wants, and it sort of sounds like she's not all that trustworthy or loyal. Just my opinions, though.

OK stop this crying, do u like the fact that u are being completely use/ think of this a woman never reveals to a man the total truth about who she sees or who is her friend. when she tells u that she don't want to be with u , she is basically is whoring herself out to u. if she likes another guy what makes u think he ain't hitting it/ come on she don't like u enough to be in a relationship with u but u can hit it. OK what do u think shes doing to the guy she like? playing footsie? come on if u are into sharing the stuff go for it, just tell her a bill needs to be paid. coe on ur not for free, if u allow yourself to be used at least get something out of it. don't be a total looser, pick yourself up this ain't how u r going to find the woman who want to settle down with u. raise ur standards and tell ur x to stop acting lie a whore. don't be apart of the sharing of AIDS, this is how it starts...... BE AWARE ur x is NASTY and u don't want to be a static of the HIV population.

You shouldn't respect her answer if she won't respect your feelings. You should tell her to goes screw with someone elses mind, because that's what she's doin to you.

If you just read over your question a few times, you would see how confused she is. She doesn't know what she wants, probably because she only wants what she can't have.

Sorry hun, sounds like you can do a lot better than that.

Good Luck

she already said she doesnt want to be in a relationship with u anymore so why do you still disillusion yourself, move on with life or before her false front gets too much into you. make your move 1st so that you wont feel that heartbroken when she makes her decision to dump you for another guy(which she will soon, but do so politely please). if you cant have her, at least make her regret not allowing you into her life. there are many other single women out there, just don't get too desperate ok...good luck

I think she's just using you.

As a girl, i know when i'm not serious with a guy & the reason why she calls u, does all the intimate stuff is to wait till the right guy to come & she just ditch you.

Just leave her... i'm sure you don't to be the second best choice.

Cool dude, move on and meet new friends. You deserve better than this. She clearly does not care about your feelings for a relationship or friendship. True friends will not hurt you.