Is it rite???????

i hv a long tym crush for about 10 yirs now...im out of our country now n i was able to make for the first tym communication to him tru ctc n frendster....den it had bin stop because he fight w/his gf ( but according to him its not because of me,its because his gf found out dat he has another yahoo acct...n i must admit dats d 1 he's using on our ctc... ) is it my fault....i send him msg.on his account...is it just rite? cause he told me bfore he has lots of friends girls,so i tink being his frend will not ruin his relationship....cause im also in a relationship rite now....but i cannot reli control my self from wanting to be his frend......( i even follow him on collge,i min i even enroll on the same skul in collge same as him evnthough he's graduating on dat tym while im still on the freshman yir.......pls i nid n honest answer....thnx!!!