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Why do women seem to be attracted to....?

me now that I'm engaged? Ever since I've told friends, co-workers, etc about my engagement, some females have opened up and want to be a "fling before the ring" - why?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    'cause they realise that you're the sorta guy that isn't afraid of commitment...and that's what msot women want...I'm not sure if you get me...It's like, you're one of the good guys...the wife-to-be has affirmed that by agreeing to marry you...so since someone's already done the whole "research" thing and "tested you", etc...it's like so much easier to just suddenly swoop in and steal the prize...sorta like plagiarism...no effort required...or should I say, minimal effort required...

  • Joy
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Not all females are like that, but there are woman out there that feel that they want what they cant have, it is all about the chase.

    Don't fall for it, because they will cheat on you to and you don't want to start your relationship with your wife to be as a cheater.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That is easy.

    Girls love competition, they love feeling and knowing the fact that they can take a taken man away from his woman.

    It's like a power trip.

    If they can get them, that means they're better than other girls.

    Most girls compete against other girls.

  • 1 decade ago

    Perhaps they have liked you all along, but now they feel the pressure? Some chicks like stealing men? You're a guy who commits, and we like that?

    I personally think its sleazy.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Its an ego trip. You go ahead and do it if you want. You're the only one who knows if its worth it, but if you cant do the time, dont do the crime. :)

  • 1 decade ago

    because now you "aren't available". some people have no morals whatsoever and they thrive on the challenge of getting at someone who is already "taken"

  • Lynda
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    For people afraid of intimacy, you are safe now.

    They are playing/ or using you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    some women are just like that and so are some men. its tacky and dont do it.

  • 1 decade ago

    i agree with huggy bear

  • 1 decade ago

    wanting what is off limits.

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