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i have a family friend named pavani and she is my good friend but few days back i told her that i am in love with u then she said i never have those feelings for u , i just think as a good friend , be a friend and i am sad and unable to dissolve it, friends plzzz help me out...........

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    agree with what most are saying....

    the fact that she was honest with you and is NOT avoiding you proves she does think of you as a Friend... be happy... it may or may not ever become more... if it becomes more... it will take much time and patience.

    having trouble "dissolve it"... hum... better to keep her as a friend

    If you are having trouble with being uncomfortable around her at the present... tell her you having trouble adjusting to just thinking of her as just a friend and need to take some time away from her to help you adjust because you do not want to lose the friendship by acting "strange" or "different".

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I feel sorry 4 u pavan, but u should b happy that she still wants 2 b ur frnd. Ur lucky that u r not going 2 lose ur love. Love is not being happy but finding happiness in what ur loved 1 wants.Be a sport and hav a great frndship vt her.

    Maybe someday she ll realize that u r her love.Dont lose hope friend.And yes dont ask her again ,i am a girl and i know what she is feeeling so dont force her.If ur love is true she will return 2 u.

    Remember 1 thing love is about letting ur love free, if it comes back to u its only yours ,if not it was never yours.Hope for the best.Good luck.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stop talking about love with her. Say sorry and remain a friend.

    Be a good friend instead of jumping into love with any opposite sex.

    That is it.

  • mkm
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Hi, pavan...

    You have to dissolve it. Then better do it without any strain or pain and be a good friend of her making someone for you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think you have done what you can do, which is to express your feelings. You're very brave and someday that frank honesty is going to serve you well. For now, you have some grieving to do. It won't last, but it's hard going through it. We all have to some degree.

  • 1 decade ago

    well u cant force her to do anything so its better to leave it to time.make new friends n try dating someone else.but dont cut her off,she seems genuine coz anyother girl would have led u on till the last.she was honest so keep her in ur life.such people r rare to come by.

  • 1 decade ago

    well happens pavan, that often we mistake for people who are close to us that they love us.

    she was frank enough to tell u that shes just ur freind, so better never loose a good freind like her.

    sure there is much more in store for a better person to fall in love

  • 1 decade ago

    dude ur gonna get turned down sometimes they r plenty of hot girls out there take me for instence everywhere i go some guy is checkin me out im blonde big big boobs im tan im 115 pounds im 5"2 im 12 turning 13 thow lol but there is plenty girls just gotta look for them

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That hurts.

    You have to have her as a friend only if you want to keep her in your life.

    Be thankful she was honest about it and not started avoiding you or you would lose her all together.

  • 1 decade ago

    hey frnd dont be so senti....n try to be practical....just try to be normal...and behave like u did earlier with her....and if ur love is true..she'll also get tht feelings for u....but dont rush for this and dont get depressed ok...All The Best

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