I hv 2 kids and happy. but my wife wants to go for another one.?

Yeah sab batein yahaan batane se acha hai ke chupke chupke apni wife ko batao, aur apne sasuraal aur mayke ko confidence mein lekar usko samjhao.

Unfortunately for your wife, there is no proven system to my knowledge that lets you anticipate a specific gender of a baby during pregnancy. I confirmed this with a few doctors i personally know including my own brother. And if for whatever reason you and your wife decide to go for another baby, then she has to be prepared for any gender and make sure she gives a girl the same love she would give a boy.

As far as your issues with having a third baby are concerned, look at them with respect to your current kids. Are they old enough to handle less attention from their parents and to even help out? Would you yourself be able to handle splitting attention between every child? Do you think you will be too old of a parent? Finances do not play the last role in such matters, but you have to be a little pragmatic about that, because on one hand there is NEVER enough money and you can wait forever to have enough; on the other hand, you don't want to make irresponsible decisions, for example, if there is a big chance someone will lose a job, or your incomes are low, but you do want to spend money on your kids, then having another baby is something you want to think twice about.

Tell her exactly what you have outlined above. You have valid reasons for not wanting another child, sounds like your family is happily complete. The chances of having a male child do not increase because you have already had 2 girls, and its not fair to you, your other kids, or especially any future child to try to have another baby just for the sake of having a boy. What is your wife going to do if you have another child and it is a girl... ask you to have another? If your wife doesn't understand that having a child is a joint decision and reasoning with her doesn't prevail, you might need to consult with a relationships counsellor or your priest/church.

ur wife should be really lucky to have an husband like u. really yar. tell ur wife that if u go for the third u will not able to manage them. for ur2 kids only u provide them the best u could give them instead of third.now a days there is no difference b/w girls and boys as u said. tell her that she is also a girl and if she goes for third one and if she gives birth to a female then she has to accept her.

there will not be any other way. so its better to have 2 kids only.

Oh boy! you have your arms finished. there is no longer lots you're able to do approximately that subject, yet to communicate to her and remind her which you had a mutual information approximately basically having 2 young babies. you already be conscious of what she needs, so basically enable her be conscious of which you somewhat do no longer decide on yet another. enable her be conscious of that if God wanted her to have a boy, she could have. Ask her what's going to she do if she has yet another lady. could she then decide on a forth new child to objective for a boy. you be conscious of it somewhat is going to in hassle-free terms come all the way down to one ingredient, the two you provide in or she discover ways to settle for the undeniable fact which you do no longer decide on yet another new child and basically be happy with the undeniable fact that she has 2 eye-catching women. If that don't artwork, in line with possibility you may attempt counseling and in line with possibility then they may well be waiting to enable her verify out issues in a diverse easy and he or she would exchange her strategies or comprehend. solid success. God bless you and your loved ones.

Tell her you will talk about it agian in 6 mos, right now you are not ready. Also, tell her pushing you is not the way to go about anything.

marriage counceling. they will be able to talk to her and reach into her mind and pull out the real reason why she wants a third child. maybe its not just because shes wanting a boy, it could be insecurities comming out.

i think u should have a kid and hope fully it will be a boii if not than just b happy god blessed yall wit a kid

consult with our better half and take a decision

if she can take it one more then way not.. all i now is not ease to have kids is hard to take care of them........ is cool to have kidsssssss