Adjusting to new bodies?

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Ok, this might sound completely ridiculous, but in my past relationships/hookups/whatevers I have always been with relatively skinny girls. There is nothing wrong with a big girl. Most of my family is and my best friend was and I saw them naked countless times. But, now I'm dating somebody who is a bit bigger, not by much but not what I've had before and how do I react if we do move to having sex? I dont want to offend her, and I know everything operates the same way. Im not disgusted with her in ANY way, I just dont want to do something wrong or come off rude.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Just go with it, if you are having sex then you should already be comfortable enough with her and her with you that it should not be an issue.

Teri D · Answer

i felt uncomfortable at first with my girlfriend. she is half my weight. but you adjust. in the heat of passion you will be very suprised how well everything falls into place. also during your "warm up" session, explore a little bit. you are always going to be uncomfortable with a new person at first anyway not matter the size.  just be u.

dmspartan2000 · Answer

I have to agree with the responder above - either you are "okay" with her size or you're not.  If you're "okay, what's the hold-up?  If you're not, then you need to "break off" the relationship before it gets really INTENSE.

redcatt63 · Answer

if you're attracted to each other, then it really shouldn't matter.  do what feels right and comes naturally!

and sorry...the 1st commenter "redcatt63" is a rude IMPOSTOR!
anyone who knows me knows this obscene/homophobic/racist is not me!

☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© · Answer

um i dont see the edge on your question babe
either you are ok with the larger lady or u aint!

james247me · Answer

dont be anal, if you like this person roll with it,  people have feelings 98 lbs or 498lbs   just be yourself.

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