What would you do if an old ex BF from high schools' GF told you to stop contacting him?

jus ask her 2 go n get a life....! if u've no such intentions of gettin bck 2 him thn dnt bother abt it... if she doesnt trust ur ex its her n his problm, u dnt hv 2 worry abt it..! she has no ryt 2 tell u who u shud talk n who not 2.... if she creates a bid scene jus put it gently 2 ur ex n ask him if it bothers him.. ask him if hes interstd in keepin in touch wit jus as frnds...!

I'm back together after many years with someone I used to live with just after HS so I can see why she's worried.

On the other hand, I think if we love someone we want them to be happy, and if they would be happier with someone else, not with us, then we should be all for them splitting up with us, let alone surely we'd rather not be with them if they're yearning to be with someone else.

Good luck. I can't imagine intercepting people's email as she did, but I don't like my guy to be in touch with old girlfriends, I don't see the point. Is he thinking we MAY not work out, so he should keep his bridges open and not burn those which still exist?

But there's nothing I can do about him being in touch with them, as I don't feel it would be appropriate to contact them. I tried contacting one, all that happened is no answer, and I'm left thinking they may still be in touch, just through channels like his tel. # at work. Now I feel I shouldn't have contacted that old girlfriend, as it is between him and me, not between me and her.

It devolves down to how much I trust him. He says

"Well I'm with you because I want to be with you more than with anybody else bec. I love YOU".

I'm trying to understand how continuing to contact him because (or to prove) you are a bigger b______ will do anyone any good. If she's insecure, there's probably not a lot you can do short of getting her into psychotherapy to improve the situation with communication. If it helps you to prove what you are, keep communicating.

Back out of this while you can. Let him go his way before trouble starts. You got your life live it. Let him go it's not worth it.

you should still back off and respect his new g'fs wishes.......#1 you are married......and #2 he is in a relationship with someone else......maybe spend the time talking with your husband instead of someone else g'f? Sorry- just being honest here

Email him again & tell him how much you wanted to be with him!

Then when she contacts you again, let her know if he comes around you will shag his brains loose!

tell her that you are just friends and that you are married and just want to stay friends

Let me put it this way - do you think you could kick her ***? CATFIGHT!!! OI! OI!