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Engagement please help i need it?

Say I've been dating this fellow for 4 years now and we got engaged last week

To come to the point

1 year ago, my boyfriend did something, i wish not to discuss and my mother resent him for it. she told me to stop seing him but i didn't

My mother hates him.

I just want advise on how to tell my mother about the situation

Basically I want her to accept him and care for him as she does for my sister's fiancee

Any sujestions

Plus I'm not trying to match up to my sister and I know that it will take time for her to come around.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Just tell her. If she wants to be a part of your life,she'll deal with it.If not, follow your heart,but keep your eyes open. Maybe she'll come around & accept him.Hell, everyone makes mistakes!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    "Mother, I have some news which you may not like, but it is concerns a decision which I have made and choose to live with. XX and I have agreed to get married. I hope that this is something that you can tolerate."

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