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What do i do if i have small feelings for my my ex but i have a boyfriend i deeply love?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    somtimes u got to let go, face it u guys are over plus u have someone u really like so thats where all the feeling need to be. Its time to fully move on! arent u in love with ur recent boyfriend u said it yourself so there shouldnt be any doubts..

  • I think that having small feelings for your ex is common, but you have to just let it go. Their is nothing you can do about it. Unless you want to still hitch up with the ex otherwise move on with the current boyfriend. You say you are deeply in love. When you are deeply in love there shouldn't any of this small feelings for the ex. Think about it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Nothing! If you truly love your boyfriend then concentrate on those feelings and ignore the small feelings for your ex. Sometimes we hang on to old feelings for ex lovers becouse we want a "back up" in case our new love dosnt work. All hanging on to those old feelings will do is hurt your new relationship so put them away and concentrate on the one you are with.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You'll probably always have some feelings for your ex's - I know I do! However, don't confuse nostalgia and nacent affection for actual love. There is nothing wrong with looking back with a bit of longing and fondness on your past, but it's your present you have to live in,so concentrate on your boyfriend. Going back never works - if it did, you wouldn't have split in the first place.

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  • nanny2
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Forget the ex hes history keep the man you deeply love.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you can still mainttain any level of feelings for anouther man then you probly are not "in love".

    I dont know exactly what you can do about it though, feelings are natural. Here are some suggestions..

    1) Ignore your feelings for your ex.

    2) Dump your boyfriend for your ex.

    3) Try to overcome your feelings and direct them towards the one you want to love instead of having mixed emotions.

  • 1 decade ago

    Leave your ex out of your life for now. Concentrate on the one you deeply love. He deserves it. Maybe you can be friends with your ex in a few years.

  • 1 decade ago

    it's perfectly normal to have small feelings for your ex...it's just residual love for an old flame but if u deeply love ur bf, then leave the past in the past..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hey, don't worry. this is happenin to me right now. it's normal. i know what you are going through so you can trust me. just spend more time with your boyfriend and pretty soon you'll forget about your ex. sooner or later you would have some memories, all you have to do then is just sa "those where the days" or "good times". something like that, and be happy the way your life is now. God bless you : )

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  • 1 decade ago

    That's normal. We never really stop having feelings for past loves, but we chose to really deeply love the one we're with now and make the relationship work.

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