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Why is it soooo hard..............?

to find a real friend???

Update:

Great answers!! I appreciate your help.

Update 2:

I think I have found a good friend and we have a lot in common. I just wanted to see some different views. Thank you.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    good question maybe you are looking in the wrong places . on your knees is a good place to find a true friend he will never lie,cheat,steal,talk behind your back,and he will always be there in your time of need JESUS

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Values what makes a person a friend are:

    the tendency to desire what is best for each other,

    sympathy and empathy,

    absolute honesty,

    mutual understanding.

    Think about it how often you meet a person you can be absolutely honest with?

    Friendship usually growth on us slowly and must be nurtured. Do not expect to have a lot of friends one real is a lot.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Cuz you cant trust anyone these days or maybe your just looking for the wrong things in a friend

  • 1 decade ago

    It's not. But you have to make sure that you are trusting the right person. I have tons of friends that I can count on at any time.

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  • 1 decade ago

    U have to look at the right place, true friends are with you, but remain with closed eyes. open up.

    take care

  • 1 decade ago

    Because a real friend is hard to find.

    I say be your own best friend as eveyone can **** on you but you cant **** on your self

  • 1 decade ago

    Because people are not used to loyalty and honesty... We are always looking for a way to get ahead or one up on someone else.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Its probably best to be best friends with yourself and if someone worthy comes along take it slow. it may work out

  • 1 decade ago

    your looking in all the wrong places and your explications are just way to high

  • 1 decade ago

    Because the real thing ... is not a commodity.

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