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Once you love someone...they stay in your heart forever. Do you find this to be true...or ??

when you break-up with someone that you have truly loved....do you find it's easy to get over them? Or does your 'love' change to 'hate' to help you get over them??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    They are always in ur heart if u truley loved them your memory just doesn't ersae them!

  • 1 decade ago

    Once you love someone they do stay in your heart forever. Your right.

    When I break up w/ someone it's heard. And I have one pearson that will be in my heart forever weather he wantes to or not.

    It also can change to hate them to get over them also. But when they call you tell you they are sorry for doing what they did to you, but then turn right around and do it again. That doesn't work. i don't go for it. So yah what your saying is TRUE all the way. I hope I answered your question...................

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  • 1 decade ago

    Not the dirtballs Ive been married to before but my husband now that I'm with is the love of my life and I could never imagine life without him and wouldn't hurt him ever! No love lost between the others though. If that was the case, I would have to re-think why I was leaving them in the first place but luckily that hasn't happened to me. I don't have any plans of leaving the love of my life any time soon so I hope I will never have to go through what you stated on your question. If I had to though, I would surly die of a broken heart. I had a friend that died one year to the day after his partner of nineteen years died of aids. It just goes to show you how strong the bonds we have for each other are.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes,so far. My first real love was over 20 years ago. He is still in my heart, but time and other experiences change the way I think about him. Other people have become more important in my life. Yet I still remember. I will probably never see him again He was 26 last time I saw him and now he is in his late 40's and only God knows where.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, they stay in my heart forever. Even the first girl I kissed back in the first grade. Not that I think of them often but I do.

    Getting over someone does take time. It is like grieving a death if you truly loved them.

    You can change your love to hate but why try to fool yourself. Denying your emotions is not healthy.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you truly love someone, it is very hard to get over them, if you do at all. I did not find it easy to get over my ex at all. I loved him for seven months, hating him all the while as well for the way he still treated me ( tried being friends, don't do it). It depends on what you let it become. If you love someone, truly love him, you won't hate them. Not really. You will hate the things they have done to you, continue to do to you. You will hate that they aren't in your life like they were anymore. But at the same time, they will always have a place in your heart. You will always still love them, even if it is in your hate. I hope this helps you out.

  • 1 decade ago

    It all depends on the situation. If the person cheated, then yes, I think the love would eventually turn into hate. But you can't just "hate" a person you once loved just because you want to. Unfortunately, getting over someone isn't that easy. Although you can be "in-love" with someone and then fall out of love with them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Nah, it's not easy to get over someone that you have truly love, esp. your first love. There are some cases your love changes into 'hate' when someone hurt you deeply, but you still can not forget them. It will always stick to your heart as a scar..

  • 1 decade ago

    My first love and I literally grew up together and apart. We still have a warm spot in our hearts for each other. Don't let changes stop that positive thoughts, we are dear friends, like brother and sister.

    His wife instantly did not like me- the "ex-girlfriend factor". I was very direct with her and let her know that she was the "love of his life" the wedding band is on her hand-game over. We both know him well enough to know that means for ever. I had my chance years ago and he is not the "right" man for me. I am ancient history and I think of him as a brother. Most of all-I love my husband so much. All the truth

    We are both very happily married to the person that is perfect for us both! She is great for him and we are friends. My husband loves and trust me in every way. I take voes very seriously.

    The reality most people need to accept it that "past loves" are just a romantic memory that will never live up the reality of those feelings. Which is normal and healthy for your current sex life, if you never act on it with the source of your imagination.

    Best wishes.

  • 1 decade ago

    When me and past boyfriends have broken up, my love for them has never changed. I have always tried to save the relationship, but they are stupid and can't wait for the relationship to heal or to grow. Getting over someone that you have truely loved is really hard for me. I think that my love will stay the same, except for one of my boyfriends (he was an a sswhol to me so it is now hate that I have towards him).

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