Ladies I still want to know what you think.?

This is just what I think but you are being the third wheel in their relationship. They are married and she obviously loves him for some reason, who knows why though. These men who are abusive are control freaks and change their attitudes to get what they want, being nice to them occasionally isn't out of the question for them. That is their anchor to keep them. She more than likely loves him and wishes he could change and sometimes he does and all is good. When he is rotten to her she wants to leave, right? She is confused by this game and you are now apart of it. The choice is yours really, you may have her now and then but her heart isn't completely yours and you should move on, she is not ready to be saved if she has the reason and means to leave and hasn't, she won't anytime soon. Good luck and I wish the best for the both of you, no one deserves to be abused and she is missing out on you and that is really too bad she feels she deserves that.

Thought about this last night after answering the first time. Not knowing you would still wonder about what we (the ladies) thought. You can find better than that. Even though she is your best friend and all. You can make other best friends along the way in life I'm sure. You need to be happy not sad. It's better to be happy and alone, then be unhappy and with someone. Something like that.......I was with a couple of guys separate times of course, both different people. They weren't nice, and treated like you know what and broke my heart. But I've found better and am very happy now. Hey when your not looking for her, you will find her. If your always looking, she won't be there. Again good luck!

You deserve better than to wait around for a married woman. You might also want to look at this woman a little closer.......For me integrity is a key requirement. You know she cheats, and you know she doesn't keep her word. Where do you see a future with that? And, if she stays in a bad marriage......you also have to question how smart she is. Honestly, I don't think she cares if she breaks your heart.......her behavior is selfish. And for the record, your heart can only be broken if you allow it. I think it's time to move on.

she is never gonna leave her husband for u so first of all get that outta ur head,i dont mean to be rude but shes playin u man....dont u see that? dont lower urself for her. if u want a true friend then contact me n we can talk.

I think you should get a life and move on.

Please read answer on other q! bye