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Has this happened to you?

Did your boyfriend's cousins' all after a while had a crush on you

If they did; how did you deal with it

My boyfriend say that my actions lead them on

But i don't see it that way

I just am being nice like the person i am

I'm not acting any different when I'm around them but to my regular self AND HE KNOWS THAT

Should I change and become grumpy when I'm around them or should I stay the same way I am.

THANKS IN ADVANCE

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Here is what you should do. Sit down and ask your boyfriend how he thinks you led them on. Tell him to be specific. Take notes in your head or on paper, and after this conversation, evaluate your personality. Maybe, everyone around you thinks you like them. I know several girls like this, and as a guy, I try to tell them that they are giving off vibes. Sometimes, we have to change who we are around certain people. You don't have to be grumpy, but if you touch them a lot or spend lots of time with them, you are just asking for trouble. Do you like the attention so much that you don't mind hurting hurting your boyfriend? If so, he may leave next time. You just have to careful to make it obvious in someway that you are being nice, or you have to watch your actions to make sure you don't send out signals. Unless, you are secretly trying to hook up with his cousins.....

    Source(s): Experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stay the way you are but discuss it with your boy. If you see signs of him becoming controlling, this is one of them. But do an honest check of yourself, are you flirtatious or trying to make your boyfriend jealous? If so, then just point that attention at him. He may be feeling left out or just sad that you would rather chat them up then him.

  • 1 decade ago

    when i was a teenager i had a bf that i would have sworn i loved. he had a nephew that was the same age as us. well, the nephew was flirting and we ended up sleeping together. i lost my bf and the nephew. as it turned out i see now that i didnt' love either of them or i wouldn't have done that

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    be yourself , if they say innapropriate things or make innappropriate actions make it clear your not interested as you have a bf and ask that they not do that

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  • 1 decade ago

    that is not yo fought they tryin to run a train on you. don't fall for it.

  • nope but if they did i wouldn't talk to them

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no .. you shouldn't be someone whou you are not .. just reject them nicely

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  • 1 decade ago

    never stop being you! NEVER!!

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