Why do people have to judge ..?

I am apologizing for every one on here that left you an unfeeling comment if they like it or not.

For those that have chosen to disrespect the memory of your still born child , I hope they never ever have to feel the deep loss and total feeling of emptiness associated with your loss . In answer to your question you have no need to answer to anyone and I can see the bravery shown in your statement here . no time will fill the void and no stupid little note from me will make a spit of difference but sweet lady be strong your Tiny son and family will always be there beside you . hugs and peaceful thought for you

When you put out questions for the whole world to answer you can't expect everyone to be humane or to agree with you; its just the reality. The fact of the matter is there are a lot of asssholes who find jokes with serious issues and as others have said you have to shake THEM off. No one has to judge but most do and will. You will eventually be unable to run away from these types of people so stay on the site and make the most out of it. We're not all asssholes. I too am sorry about your loss.

I'm sorry, I can't even begin to imagine how horrible and heartbreaking that must've been. People can be vicious, especially with the anonymity given to them on line. People can say whatever nasty thing they want, but no one really knows how they would deal with anything, until they are faced with it them self. I responded to a question that was asked about (would you post of your son died) at first I said hell no, then I changed it. I said hell no, because I believe my reaction would be far worse. I've dealt with many tragedies, and usually in a more self-destructive way. I changed my answer because I didn't want to sound self-righteous. No one has the right to judge you, and if you read what I wrote and felt bad, I am very sorry, I meant no harm. My heart goes out to you.

That makes me sad coz you have really good answers. Not all of us think the same way as those small-minded judgemental morons. Please don't let them get you down. You are the only one who knows exactly how you feel therefore you are the only one who can decide what is the best way for you to deal with your grief. It makes my heart break that you are now at home in even more pain because of people's cruelty and small-mindedness. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with putting a memory of your son on your answers - if people have a problem with that then its exactly that -THEIR problem. Not yours. Take care of yourself sweet and I hope one day you can be happy again. I'm glad you have another son who can help you smile. :) xox

Oh! dear sorry to hear about ur son. but u know life doesn`t stop for any one. yes we go through pain for some time but then starts our routine life. u shd not get panic with responses u got hear on message board. may be all few reply were funny but there would be some who replied u understanding what u r going through. so pls cheer up and remain in yahoo answers.

its so sad that there are so many heartless people out there they have a right to an opinion but not to be horrible to people and how they do things with their lives i am so sorry that you lost your little boy i lost a girl at the start of my third trimester so know how i felt obviously people cope differently so i will not dare say i know how you felt as i don't i know that i live with the heartache day in say out we have gone on to have two more daughters whom we love dearly but still i grieve for my lost daughter as i no doubt always will. good luck in all you do and don't let narrow minded people put you off this site for every prat there is three genuine people out there.

I am so sorry about the lost of your son and keep posting your questions here i answer questions to the best i know how and don't let the bad apples on here get you down there are plenty of good apples or people that do really care. And you take care.

There are some that way and best is to ignore them!

You went through very bad time and I agree one can not give ANY response to get 2 points.

I still feel and it will be honor, to those who are sincere to this task, that you be with us and see the bright side of the moon.

Dear, I am so sorry to hear about such a sad thing.......but I want you to know something....most of these people on here are kids.....and they don't even have a clue what Ob/Gyn is....much less what the appt would be about.......do not take it to heart, and worry about it.....my prayers go out to you, and yours....and thank your husband for being there for Americans, and the American way......being a vet....I appreciate it more than most.....take care...be good....and be safe and happy

People have to deal with loss their own way and people are cold and heartless. Hugs to you and I hope you don't get too depressed over this situation. I have been through it my self and woould never wish it upon anyone. You deal with it the best way you know how. One day at a time. E-mail me if you ever need to, I'll be there for you boo_bear510@hotmail.com