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mo_nut53 asked in HealthOther - Health · 1 decade ago

I need help with a dream?

Ok before I start I am not perverted, and I am an adult male, married for 31 years. Until about our 25 anniversary everything seemed to be ok with our love life. Since then my wife has become (for lack of better word) frigid and doesnt seem to be interestsed in intimate relations. I have dealt with it since then. I have never have an affair, although it has entered my mind a few times. Here is the problem, I have had erotic dreams in the past but this one really freaked me out and bothered me and at same time I really enjoyed it. The other night I dreamed we were on a reality show that deals with partners and sex. My wife and I were given different partners. As my new partner and I were having sex, a sign appeared that said, She has an STD and I was asked what I should do. The sex became more intense. I woke up with the largest ejaculation of my life. I felt very guilty but really wanted this in my life. What does it mean? No jokes only serious replays. Help here, please.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    That you are human.

    Everyone likes to get off on naughty things that they are not suppose to do.

    Your body is telling you..you have needs and it is trying to wake up up to the reality that you need to spend more time with your wife.

    Everyone has sexual erges..yours are building up to the point of erotic dreams.

    Source(s): I am guessing
  • 1 decade ago

    It is a harmless dream... everyone has erotic dreams about other people sometimes. I have heard that most men feel the most love through sex and maybe the dream is trying to make you realize that. Maybe you should try doing something romantic for your wife perhaps that would help. There is a book if you'd like to read it that may also help called How To Satisfy A Woman Every Time... and have her beg for more! by Naura Hayden. I hope my answer helps you out.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well you sound pretty normal. It's a wet dream. i wouldn't read too much into it. i'm sure you've been thinking alot about your lack of intmacy with your wife. i'm a woman and have those types of dreams sometimes. Now, don't be silly and go act on it, it was only a dream. you probably won't have another for years! My husband has come up with some pretty outrageous things to try in the past few years, maybe you should to. Variety is the spice of life!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    particular.. I had a dream in the previous wherein I had deja vu with regard to the comparable dream. interior the dream I unexpectedly felt like I had dreamed it in the previous and then I grew to become conscious i became dreaming which became much extra insane! I nonetheless went contained in the direction of the dream yet I knew each and every thing that became going to ensue in the previous it did through fact i might desire to remember dreaming it in the previous.. then i presumed I awakened yet I wasn't wakeful rather i became nonetheless slumbering, I in simple terms stopped being conscious.. and that i dreamed that i became questioning approximately my dream deja vu, and targets interior of targets and what i could do as quickly as I awakened.. then i for my section awakened and that i became at a loss for words... lol

  • 1 decade ago

    I believe the sign of std was a sign of guilt on your part even though you were excited about trying out a new partner.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm not clear from your question if it is your partner or your wife in the dream that has the STD. It stands for Sexually Transmitted Diseases.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i, too, am a married man of 34 years. there have been numerous times in our marriage when i've had extremely erotic dreams resulting in massive erections, and, yes, one or two orgasms in my sleep. i'd wake up with *** on the bed or soaked into my pubic hair.

    so, don't worry and feel guilty. we can't control out dreams and apparently your dream was designed to help satisfy your sex drive, or lack thereof.

    should one occur in the future, go with it, take it to completion.

    enjoy! every man has had this experience.

  • 1 decade ago

    it just sounds like sexual frustration, and like you said the thoughts of having an affair, STD is one of the risks if you do.....i have to give you alot of credit for sticking it out this long, but in a way she is kinda leaving you no choice, i think you need to tell her how you feel and let her know about your feelings

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like you want/need sex regardless of the consequences which I think is perfectly normal considering your current sexual relationship with your wife.

    If you don't masturbate, I would start. Maybe it will help curb your very healthy sexual appetite.

  • 1 decade ago

    U better see your Dr to ensure u do not have a STD

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