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Should i take him back after wat he has broke my heart, i still love him alot and have forgave wat he done to?
i have broke up wit my bf abt 3 weeks now. i was the one took initial n decided to break up cos he was completely different when he came back here fr his vacation.ignored n didnt talk to me, hung up on me when he heard my voice. i was so fed up n hurt. so i went to his house n talked to him, why he acted this way n it was unfair to me cos i didnt do anything wrong. he was the one. finally he said we are two different persons, it wont work. but i noe he has someone over there in VN, just didnt admit. he said he was tired of me. i was so tired of him cos of the way he treated me. i was a good n supported gf, even my friends n family think i was too good for him. he always think for himself, never care abt my feelings, even he admited that he is selfish. he said i was like his ex, always depend on him which i wasnt. the first week when he was over there, i called him everyday cos i missed him. so we broke up. i have forgot wat he done to me, broke my heart completely, let it go n move on
even though i have said i am moving on wit my life, and i have talked to him that wat happened bt us is the past, move on wit our lives, be happy 4 each other n be friends. i have tried not to think abt him. it is working. every time i think of him i dont feel sad or want to cry but i still love him alot. forgave wat he broke my heart completely. wat comes around comes around. i was a very good gf to him. n i think everyone deserves second chance. i thought i would take him back if he comes back to me but i am not sure cos when that time comes, i might completely move on wit my life n dont love him anymore . i thought i will take him back if he will change. it is hard for me get over him, it has been 3 weeks now. n we had been together for 8 mths. i dont noe wat to think cos i still love him n care for him. i have big heart, i have forgave wat he done to me.
i do want to move on wit my life, find a better one who will love , care n understand me more than he has when he was wit me. i hope i can finally get over him someday cos i was very hurt on this relationship. i was the one who took care of him but he has never give me the care back i like do. just rite now i still love him. I WANT TO MOVE ON WIT MY LIFE and be happy that he has walked out of my life. he has hurt me many times when i was wit him, even though i ignored that cos i love him
9 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I know you love him and that makes moving on realyy hard. It really seems like he is not worth fighting for though. You can find love again with someone who can treat you right. This guy doesnt sound like he is in love with you if he can hurt you so easily. Let him go and move on. If its meant to be he will come back to you. Dont call him, hearing his voice will just make it hurt more.
- 1 decade ago
Maybe you should move on and try to give yourself the break it needs. As the saying goes there are a lot of fishes in the ocean (i hope i am right with this one!). I think you deserve someone better. He is not the only man on earth girl! Pray to God to give you the strength to endure all the pains. Good luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
YOU have said he doesnt care about your feelings You shouldnt have gone over there after the breakup Bad idea.
You need to let a man find you who will really care He said he doesnt and selfish men make ppl miserable...Pray for help
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Move on girl theres more fish in the sea im sure another boy will be greatfull for having you and be able to value you. Hes just an idiot it will never work out with him.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
No excuse for the treatment he gave you,if you want to be happy move on to someone else,he will only keep treating you this way because he knows you will take him back,move on fine someone to treat you decent.
- 1 decade ago
girl if he did to ur heart once he'll do it again. it sounds like ur were a good gf to him but he is going to be that way then there is no way i would ever give the chance.
Source(s): it as happened to me before - Anonymous1 decade ago
i didnt feel like reading the whole thing but id say no. dont go back to him if he's broken your heart already. he's just gonna do it again. just talk as friends. thats the best thing to do.