Is it worth loving a person who lives in another state?

love has no boundaries, of course.

Four years is a long time. I wish I could tell you that love can make it though, but from personal experience, being separated that long can be very hard. I think it depends on how much you can visit and how close you can remain. Only time will tell, but if I had to make a prediction, I would say you will make it several months, but then it will fall apart. I'm sorry, but that is what I think.

Good luck whatever you decide. I will say that if you make it, it would be a great love story to tell your kids.

it rather is a tragic tale, however the concern to do is to grasp that the main severe individual on your life is you. you nevertheless have you ever. and you're nevertheless the comparable individual even however persons manage you. additionally you will be an excellent lady for your self and your very own self-well worth to no longer make people love you. on the 2nd its no longer extraordinary that your relationships fail because of the fact youre no longer over your ex and you're too needy. supply it time and concentration on your self for now, then once you're arranged Im useful you will locate love lower back.

If you love her, truly love her, and care and want to make it work between you two, then yes, it is worth it. I'm also in North Carolina, and my Boyfriend is all the way in Washington State, and we still love each other just as much.

Long distance relationships are good for some people. Personally, that's all I want right now. But to answer your question, agree to put your relationship on break. Have a reunion at Christmas time and go from there. Love is strong but also blind. Take your time. That's all we have.

I think so. It's so romantic. It hurts sometimes a little, but it's nice knowing that someone is taking the time out for you, and sharing time with you personally. However, I've seen this scenario before. It can work out at first, but after a while, somebody is gonna start looking around for something else close to them.

If you really love her, I'm sure you can manage.....But be careful, sometimes you think that things are going great but the fact is something else....I've never been too fond with the long distance relationships.....If you think it's really worth it, keep going.....but 4 years it's a long time, if you're sure that you love her, then wait for her.....Good Luck

No. If you two really were meant to be together you would design your lives so that you would be together. Just by virue of the fact you felt compelled to ask this question should tell you that this girl is not the one for you --- at least not yet, anyway. Break things off, and resume dating her if she wants to live in the same city as you.

yes, yes, yes!!! My Boyfriend and I are 2300 miles apart and I couldn't think of a better person to want to share my life with. He will be coming to live with me in a month!!! If you really truly love each other, then you need to stick it out with letters, email, phone calls and the ocassional visit!!!!! I don't want to ever be with anyone else but him and he feels the dame about me. It is worth the work if you truly want to be together!!! Good Luck!!~

It's worth it if you suffer the 4 years and still be with her at the end. But you have to remember that people can change their state of mind with someone when they meet someone who can cater to them locally.

not if your love language is Quality Time or Acts of Service or Physical Touch. if it's Words of Affirmation or Gifts, it might work. Read the book called The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman together (i mean but separately) and see if YOU think it can work. good luck!