How do you get over someone you love? serious answers only?

If you know it is over, move on. Life is too short to worry about a going nowhere relationship. I know this will sound harsh, but this is what I did when my husband ran off with another woman. I went to eharmony.com and found a really compatible bunch of gentlemen to communicate with. Sure ended all of the crying and got me off of my pity pot. Kept me busy until I found the right one to tie the knot! Make a deal with yourself everyday to cry tomorrow not today....and then make every minute of today count!

As you've said, they make you do everything in the relationship.. It means you are not doing your part.. Give 99% of love but also keep in mind the 1% for your self.. Giving everything is proving that you really love that person.. but you should think if it's the right thing.. You can't spell L-O-V-E if there is no T-I-M-E.. Give both of you time to tell and listen what you feel.. and that makes a strong relationship..

I hope that I helped you a lot..

Have a nice day..

It takes time. You just have to realize that the person was not the one for you that is not something that anyone can explain to you how to do it will happen eventually. You may feel hurt now and think that the pain may never go away but it will. You need to distance yourself for a while from this person to give yourself time to heal. I am not saying that you never speak to them again or that maybe in the future you may not be friends but for now it is not an option for you to fully move on. You will find the person that you were meant to be with you just have to have faith in that. Everything happens for a reason and by dwelling on it you may be missing out on something really great.

Stay active with other things and date others. you can't make anyone want you. They don't have to tell you how they feel. Actions speaks loud. I know it hurts, but after you get over them. you will be able to look back and thank God you did not end up with them. If this person is cold to you now. Be glad it was not after marriage and a family. now remember to stay busy. Take classes, get involved in community activity, Do you like little children? have the children over in your yard, create activities with them. read them stories., and believe me they will come up with ideas that will keep you on your toes. I am enjoying yahoo question and answers, create yourself a personal question and answer news letter on the Internet. Don't feel sorry for yourself. The ungrateful person you have dealt with is the loser. Good Luck, Go for it.

Probably going to be sometime before you get over them.Might even start going after another person that looks or acts or somehow reminds of your special someone.There's like no simple answer,your memorizes of that person are always going to be with you.

But i think that you should talk with some of your close friends,instead of keeping of those feeling to yourself.And if the other person really doesn't won't to talk you with you,or any communication,probably i think its best to leave it alone because if you keep trying its probably going to become more depressing and hurt you more.

well dear that sounds like a one sided relationship in the first place. it is hard no matter what the relationship is when you heart on let you move on go out with some friends maybe meet some one else and it sounds like if you compare this one to others they arent looking pretty good maybe someone else will give you the time and effort a relationship takes good luck

Good things come along to help in these matters. Time passes and the frustration and rejection fades. I look back to a similar time where I might have felt overcome with love and its not returned so to speak....I got over it obviously in time. Time, time, time. just move forward dear. Everyday will get easier I suspect.

Over? Sounds like your still in it!!! You make no mention of a separation in fact your post suggest your still with this person. Let start from beginning, which you haven't. 1st step leave this person if nothing is working out. Once you do that then we can talk about how to get over this person. I have dealt with just a situation but you have to leave in order to gt over come back once you leave!

Sorry to tell you but if you really love them... you'll never get over them.... I'm not good at relationships (hence the reason I'm 23 and single...) Sorry you are having a bad time right now... I'm even more sorry that I can't help you much... Good luck

time heals i feel you im in the same boat but i now know its over just hang with your best freinds do something think what she/he did in the past that made you mad. forget about her dont call her see her if you can if you do the feeling will be there again give it time go hang with your best freinds~!!