Honestly have you ever been judged by your avatar or picture?I have been called terrible names more than once!

I'm almost afraid to know what people think about me based on my avatar. They're just jealous that they don't look so good.

Cherokee, if that's a pic you pulled off some web site to represent your sentiment, you had to have done it to be controversial, and known that people were gonna have something to say about it. On the other hand, if you've had two children or more and still have a bod and a butt that looks like that, let 'em have something to say. You're sexy as hell and have every right to show off.

I think your avatars/ pictures are the best! and people that judge them in a negative way are just jealous... and I think if everyone put their pic up, the people that make all these negative comments could probably scare a dog out of butchers shop!

It pretty stupid when people answer questions just to bag you out, it happens to me a bit.

And I think some of my answers just want to use me for my car or steal it haha...

I think that you are using this avatar to feel once again in your life like a real woman who get's attention from the males. That's ok, it a perfectly normal female behavior of your age.

Ahh well, it's just you! People sometimes assume I'm goth, and while that's not a bad thing, I'm really not, just me. I don't like labels really. I like your avatar, it's sorta badass, especially since it's black and white :)

You have got the coolest avatars out there!

Keep up the good work!!

I don't pre-judge,but your avatar is risque.If you want more serious answers than I would change it to something more appropriate.

i don't know if i have been called terrible names, none have never been posted to me. forget about them, you know you are a good mom and that is all that matters.

To get attention maybe. As a counselor, I think it could be a mid-life crisis. You could be trying to regain your youth.

congrtas on all acounts.... people are sometimes idiotic ... remember assuming is the mother of stupidity .... shame on people who assume way too much!!