My so called boyfriend stood me up for our vacation what should I do??

yes, it's a bunch of BS.

not enough money? unless he gambled it all away the night before, that's just a lame excuse. He couldn't even bother to give you a well-thought out one?

I'm glad you didn't crumble but went ahead and enjoyed yaself.

Don't listen to anymore of his BS. The previous pile still stinks.

You ought to sack him for that stunt. He should not plan a whole vacation and everything if he cannot afford it. The loser made you go on a trip alone! You may say you had a good time, but the whole purpose of the trip to start with was to grow closer. Obviously that did not happen. He did not even tell you he was having trouble going on the trip until the day before?????? That makes no sense. Imagine what he could do in the future just like this. Stuff like this is built into a guy's personality. He will do it again! You deserve better.

Anyway, that is my two cents. He can't even be honest and open with you. What kind of relationship does that make for?

He's not that into you!!! Dump him coz you can do better. He had a cold calculated plan to tell you that he was not coming on the very day you were to leave that is heartless. Money should not have been an issue if he really wanted to come spend quality time with you and the vacation was planned.

He is the kind that will stand you up at the altar too....so let him go now!!!

Does he have a history of flaking on you? Do you believe him that this was a money issue? Is he selfish normally? It sounds like you need to take a long hard look at your relationship. If he doesn't truly make this up to you, then you can do better. You sound like a smart, independent woman. You don't need an unreliable man in your life.

That's a pretty cowardly act on his part.

You sound like a smart and successful woman. You can do better.

And by the way, this answer puts me over 5000 pts. Level 5 for me.

Why didnt you tell him "hey come with me i'll pay and next time you will" then you would see if the money was the problem.

If you still have doubts then talk to him. He is your boyfriend after all. You should trust each other.

Maybe the guy is geniune. Don't judge too soon. He probably feels like a total idiot for not having enough cash to go with his chick and felt embarrased that he told you on the day. It would have been a slap in his face if he told you in advance that he had no cash and he knew that you would make a plan for him to go with you. You just have a proud man that did not wanted to show his weakness who is extremely inlove with you.

You did the right thing. Just because she carried this baby doesn't make her a mother. She is a donor. She made the choice to sign her rights away. Legally, it is not her child any longer. In the best interest of the child, she should not even be given visitation.

Look at it from all sides...

ONE: he might of really not had the money, he didn't tell you sooner because he was trying to save up money becuase he really wanted to go

TWO: he did not want to go from the begging and didn't know how to tell you so this was his way out.

all you can do is sit down and talk to him and see what happened. DO YOU LOVE HIM? Is it worth messing up waht you have for that?

I think you're right, it was bull and the million phone calls was to make sure you were still there so he could do whatever it was he was doing w/o the worry of u showing up.

Ditch him honey, there are better guys out there.